Andre was evaluated as a preschooler when his mother and pediatrician became concerned about his speech development. His expressive language at the time was jabbering and high-pitched screaming sounds and, it was determined that Andre had moderate to severe delays in all areas of development. Andre attended a county special-education preschool program where he made gains in all areas of development, despite significant attention and some behavioral problems.

"It was felt that the program at Rock Brook would be the next best step for Andre," said Mary Caterson, executive director of Rock Brook School. "Although he was talking at that point to request his wants and needs, he continued to need significant development of his speech and language skills. He remained approximately two years behind with auditory processing and attention problems and difficulty with spontaneous expressive language. The use of language in social situations was really difficult for him. He also required a small class with structure and a behavior management component."

Located in Skillman, Rock Brook School is a private, nonprofit school for communication-impaired and disabled children, from preschool through age 12. The school offers full academic individualized programs as well as speech and language remediation, behavior management, physical therapy and the development of self-esteem and social skills, all through a comprehensive, team-teaching approach.

Clearly Rock Brook School has been beneficial in numerous ways to Andre who says he enjoys all of the subjects he has learned about at the school, especially science. He can even recount one of his favorite experiments that involved watering plants with salt water and tap water to see which type of water was best for the plants. Andre also states that he likes his teachers, the work, the recesses and even the rules at Rock Brook.

"Andre is a terrific young man whose progress during his time at Rock Brook has been amazing," said Amy Myers, a speech pathologist who has worked with Andre for three years. Amy describes Andre as a very likable young man who enjoys science and math and who loves to learn. "One summer, Andre took the initiative to memorize his addition and multiplication facts during school vacation," adds Amy. "He soaks up knowledge like a sponge, and his innate curiosity makes him a great student.

"Andre's work habits and social skills have matured remarkably since he came to Rock Brook School. He is eager to please, has a good sense of humor, and is well-liked by his classmates. I wish every educator could be lucky enough to have at least one student like Andre. He is a joy to have in class, and enthusiasm like his makes a teacher's job truly rewarding."

"The program's focus on intensive, collaborative speech and language therapy was very important to Andre's eventual success," said Caterson. "He also benefited from our social skills program through which he had opportunities to practice, script language and discuss social situations. He really has had significant gains in the skills required for interpersonal interaction. We know that Andre will continue to have much more well-deserved success in his academic career."

You can make a difference in someone's life by supporting Somerset County United Way's Community Care Fund. To make a donation, visit United Way's website at www.SomersetCountyUnitedWay.org or call them at (908) 725-6640. For more information about programs and services offered by the Rock Brook School, call (908) 431-9500.

An independent nonprofit organization that acts as a catalyst for positive change, Somerset County United Way supports health and human services providers by raising funds and effectively investing them, developing volunteer resources and building community collaboratives and partnerships Your donations to the Community Care Fund make it possible for Somerset County United Way to fund 92 critical health and human services programs through 55 affiliated agencies. Funding decisions are made by trained volunteers who represent the community. More than 88 cents of every dollar donated supports programs that provide food and shelter, quality child and elder care, emergency services, youth development, healthcare services and more. For more information, visit www.somersetcountyunitedway.org or call (908) 725-6640.

"Thank you for our freedom," read one message. "Forever grateful, God bless you and America," was another message to a veteran left by a visitor to this year's Party in the Park at Duke Island Park in Bridgewater on June 29. The messages were written on a banner that will be delivered to the veteran patients at Lyons V.A. Medical Center and was one of several on-site volunteer projects in which visitors to the park could participate.

Sponsored by Somerset County United Way, the Somerset County Park Commission and Wegmans, Party in the Park is an annual event that focuses on health, wellness and safety.

"It was great to see so many people come out to enjoy an afternoon of entertainment in the park, while also learning more about how to deal with stress and other health issues," said Deanna Keller, senior manager of community initiatives for United Way. "We estimate that 2,000 people attended this year's event."

Approximately 30 local health and human services organizations were on hand to educate people about the services they offer. Children delighted in watching the basketball tricks performed by the Hoop Wizard on stage at the bandshell, and everyone was ready to disco to the 70s sound of the band "Saturday Nite Fever."But people also enjoyed the opportunity to help others in need.

"New to the event this year was the community service component," explained Keller. "In addition to our two on-site projects, visitors were asked to bring an item to donate to a local food bank. They also had the opportunity to give blood or sign up as an organ donor. And, the nonprofit agencies represented at the event offered information on volunteer opportunities."

More than 100 pounds of food was collected and will be distributed by the Franklin Township Food Bank and the Food Bank Network of Somerset County. Both food banks are United Way-affiliated agencies and serve residents of Somerset County.

More than 200 people all of ages signed the banner for veterans, with many of the youngsters drawing flags or other pictures. The banner project was sponsored by Somerset County United Way and the Elizabeth Snyder-Continental Chapter of the Daughters of the American Revolution.

Another volunteer project, sponsored by United Way, invited visitors to decorate a clay flower pot and plant one of 200 begonias. The potted plants were then delivered to clients of the Adult Day Center of Somerset County in Bridgewater and the Somerset Hills Adult Day Center in Basking Ridge.

"I'd like to thank everyone who came to the park and made the event such a success," said Keller. "The volunteer projects were a great way to introduce families and especially children to community service. And to the folks who signed the banner or planted a flower, I want them to know that they helped to brighten someone's day. Thank you."

An independent nonprofit organization that acts as a catalyst for positive change, Somerset County United Way supports health and human services providers by raising funds and effectively investing them, developing volunteer resources and building community collaboratives and partnerships Your donations to the Community Care Fund make it possible for Somerset County United Way to fund 92 critical health and human services programs through 55 affiliated agencies. Funding decisions are made by trained volunteers who represent the community. More than 88 cents of every dollar donated supports programs that provide food and shelter, quality child and elder care, emergency services, youth development, healthcare services and more. For more information, visit www.somersetcountyunitedway.org.

In an effort to help students learn about their community at large and be a part of helping those who are living in a difficult situation, the Auten Road Intermediate School in Hillsborough hosted a coin drive during the month of May to benefit the Volunteers of America Agape House in Somerville, a Somerset County United Way-affiliated agency. The students raised $1,162.50 and that amount was matched by Patriot Media of Hillsborough. The coin drive was a fund-raising effort by the Friends of Agape House.

Agape House is a 60-bed facility providing emergency shelter, child enrichment activities and services to homeless families, single women and children. Residents are provided with 24-hour staff support and supervision, case management, workshops, housing, supplemental food, clothing and household items. Agape House is administered by the Volunteers of America.

Each morning during homeroom, a student would read a piece of information about Agape House and homelessness during the month of the collection. The Auten Road Intermediate School has a population of 1,200 fifth and sixth grade students. "A population this large can have a significant impact in their local community and we feel our students will benefit greatly from a closer understanding of homelessness in our area," said Principal Harold Blackstone.

"We are so very pleased that the students at Auten Road Intermediate School made this effort to not only help the clients we serve, but to also learn about how homelessness is not just a big city problem," said Agape House Program Director Beth Merenda.

"Patriot Media is proud to support our community and this humanitarian effort. We are sure that the children at Auten Road Intermediate School and the clients of Agape House will both benefit greatly," said John Gdovin, director of operations for Patriot Media.

"Friends of Agape hopes that by getting local school children and their parents involved and aware of the problem through participation - the kids staying at Agape House will really benefit. We are so pleased to be partnering with Auten Road Intermediate School and Patriot Media, their community spirit is contagious," said Friends of Agape committee chairperson Jayna Tutino.

Volunteers of America Delaware Valley operates 29 programs and services in the tri-state area to assist those in need. Programs range from shelters for families and single adults to homeless prevention, to daycare and latchkey services for children to caring for severely, mentally disabled adults, to transitional housing to community correction programs.

Friends of Agape is a volunteer group of compassionate people from the Somerset County community that raises funds and support for Volunteers of America's Agape House. Friends of Agape was created in 1997 when Agape House was at risk of closing due to a severe loss in revenue. This was a result of drastic changes in welfare laws. Friends of Agape played an integral part in keeping the Agape House open.

Patriot Media & Communications CNJ, LLC is a privately-held company formed in 2002 by cable veteran Steve Simmons and venture capital partner Spectrum Equity Partners. Patriot Media owns and operates a 80,000-household cable system in Central New Jersey, providing cable television and high-speed internet services.

United Way P.E.A.C.E. Grant Benefits Elementary School Class and Senior Citizens

Members of a 3rd grade French class at Irene E. Feldkirchner Elementary School recently presented a production of “La Petite Poule Rouge” (The Little Red Hen) for members of the Green Brook Senior Citizens and special guests. The production was made possible thanks to a grant from Somerset County United Way.

“The story of the Little Red Hen is about caring and responsibility,” said Lynn Perfilio, teacher of the class. “Inviting the senior citizens to our production gave the students the chance to use the values they are learning.” In addition to presenting “The Little Red Hen” in French, students performed several other skits and sang traditional French songs. When the performance was over, the children donned chef’s hats and served crepes to those in attendance. Class members also created story booklets and baked loaves of bread that they presented to each of the seniors as a gift.

Partnering Education And Community Enrichment, or P.E.A.C.E. Grants, were awarded by United Way earlier this year. The grants were made available to schools and required that elements of the New Jersey Cross-Content Workplace Readiness Standards and the Six Pillars of Character be incorporated into the grant proposal.

“This event was a wonderful example of how the Mini Grant program is helping United Way in its mission to build community,” said Allen Reese, president of Somerset County United Way. “Not only do the grants provide financial support to important youth development programs, but the service requirement involves young people in helping others and developing a sense of community. Our goal is to help prepare our county’s youth to become caring and productive adults.”

Twenty members of the Tuesday meeting group of the Green Brook Senior Citizens attended the event, along with representatives from the Board of Education, United Way and Fleet Bank, a United Way corporate partner.

“We are very proud of the students,” said Janet Goldberg, a guidance counselor at the school. “They worked very hard, learned to take on responsibility and cooperate with others. They learned that what you do and say affects others, and actions show your character.”

An independent nonprofit organization that acts as a catalyst for positive change, Somerset County United Way supports health and human services providers by raising funds and effectively investing them, developing volunteer resources and building community collaboratives and partnerships Donations to the Community Care Fund make it possible for Somerset County United Way to fund 92 critical health and human services programs through 55 affiliated agencies. Funding decisions are made by trained volunteers who represent the community. More than 88 cents of every dollar donated supports programs that provide food and shelter, quality child and elder care, emergency services, youth development, healthcare services and more. For more information, visit www.somersetcountyunitedway.org.

AT&T Volunteers Join Millions Across U.S. In Celebrating National Volunteer Week,
April 27 - May 3

In celebration of the spirit of volunteering, AT&T partnered with the Points of Light Foundation's national network of Volunteer Centers to coordinate the AT&T CARES: "A Work Day in the Park" in 10 cities that connected thousands of employees with opportunities to make a difference in the communities where they live and work. The Volunteer Center of Somerset County United Way, a nonprofit agency that supports critical health and human services programs through their Community Care Fund, coordinated Somerset County's AT&T employee volunteer project. On April 22, 25 AT&T volunteers assisted the Friends of Great Swamp by creating a garden featuring native plants and painting the floor of the auditorium at their visitors center. Friends of Great Swamp is a nonprofit organization dedicated to promoting the conservation of the natural resources of the Great Swamp National Wildlife Refuge and fostering public understanding and appreciation of the Refuge.

"Volunteering isn't simply nice to do; it's necessary for the health of our democracy. America runs on the spirit of volunteering," said Robert K. Goodwin, president and CEO of the Points of Light Foundation &Volunteer Center National Network. "Without the efforts of millions of men, women and children who give their time to help others in their communities, our country would be a different place."

This national week of service and recognition, coordinated by the Points of Light Foundation & Volunteer Center National Network, is designed to increase the number of volunteers throughout the nation by connecting men, women and youth to service projects in their communities.
"Community involvement is the cornerstone of our social responsibility," said J. Michael Schweder, president, AT&T New Jersey. "AT&T CARES, the company's program that offers employees one paid workday a year to volunteer, connects us to the communities where we live, work and serve our customers."

In the year 2000, 83.9 million adults volunteered for an average of 3.6 hours per week. Yet their work represented the equivalent of more than nine million full-time employees at a value of $239 billion, according to the Independent Sector. For more information on National Volunteer Week or to find out more about Somerset County United Way's Volunteer Center, contact Paul Dudek at (908) 253-6506 or visit the homepage www.SomersetOnline.org.

An independent nonprofit organization that acts as a catalyst for positive change, Somerset County United Way supports health and human services providers by raising funds and effectively investing them, developing volunteer resources and building community collaboratives and partnerships. Donations to the Community Care Fund make it possible for Somerset County United Way to fund 92 critical health and human services programs through 55 affiliated agencies. Funding decisions are made by trained volunteers who represent the community. More than 88 cents of every dollar donated supports programs that provide food and shelter, quality child and elder care, emergency services, youth development, healthcare services and more. For more information or to make a donation, visit www.somersetcountyunitedway.org.

AT&T (www.att.com) is among the premier voice, video and data communications companies in the world, serving businesses, consumers, and government. The company runs the largest, most sophisticated communications network in the U.S., backed by the research and development capabilities of AT&T Labs. A leading supplier of data, Internet and managed services for the public and private sectors, AT&T offers outsourcing and consulting to large businesses and government. The company is a market leader in local, long distance and Internet services, as well as transaction-based services like prepaid cards, collect calling and directory assistance. With approximately $40 billion of revenues, AT&T has relationships with about 50 million consumers and 4 million business customers, who depend on AT&T for high-quality communications. AT&T has garnered several awards for outstanding performance and customer service.

The Points of Light Foundation & Volunteer Center National Network engages and mobilizes millions of volunteers who are helping to solve serious social problems in thousands of communities. Through a variety of programs and services, the Foundation encourages people from all walks of life - corporations, faith-based organizations, low-income communities, families, youth, and older adults - to volunteer.
Call 1-800-VOLUNTEER, or visit www.1800volunteer.org, to be connected to a local Volunteer Center and learn more about the variety of volunteer opportunities within your own community.

But, she was still hesitant to take the leap into home ownership when the perfect house became available in the town where Michelle had been looking. Though the area was beautiful and the school system just right, Michelle was uncertain about whether or not to proceed with her dream.

"I had my doubts and fears," said Michelle. "I was worried about whether or not the funds would be available and if I'd have enough to put down. I almost gave up."

But Michelle forged ahead. Thanks to the gentle encouragement of Markai Plange, a SCCOAH staff member, Michelle's fears were put to rest. Michelle and her son ended up with the home of their dreams.

Michelle's apprehension was certainly understandable. Purchasing a new home, especially in today's economy, can seem a daunting and impossible aspiration. But, help and support are available. Organized in 1987 to address the lack of affordable housing in the area, SCCOAH is a nonprofit collaboration of caring corporate, civic, business, government, housing and advocacy groups that work together to increase the development, availability and attainability of affordable housing and provide consumers with information on existing affordable housing.

First Home Club is a Federal Home Loan Bank program that offers eligible low- and moderate-income first-time home buyers a matching grant of $3 for every dollar saved in an account. If participants save the maximum of $170 a month over a 10-month period they will be matched with $5,000. The program is administered by UnitedTrust Bank for the Federal Home Loan Bank of New York, which makes the funds available through a set-aside of their annual profits. A requirement of the program is that participants become prepared homeowners through a strict educational program. SCCOAH is the agency responsible for providing the comprehensive counseling and support to the participants of the UnitedTrust Bank program.

Some graduates can then apply for a piggyback grant of $10,000 if they buy in Somerset County and meet all criteria. "We noticed that even with the First Home Club program, graduates were buying homes in Pennsylvania, far from their friends, family and employment in Somerset County due to high costs of homes here," said Sharon Clark, SCCOAH executive director. "We have been fortunate to secure additional funds through HOME dollars which provides many of the graduates with $10,000 additional funds for closing and down payment if they buy in Somerset County."

"At UnitedTrust we are delighted to participate with the Federal Home Loan Bank of NY in encouraging families to save towards the purchase of a home Of their own and giving them a little extra help to make their homeownership dream a reality," said Jay E. Castillo, vice president and community development officer of UnitedTrust Bank.

SCCOAH offers a number of programs in addition to the First Home Club, all of which are designed to increase the accessibility of affordable housing in Somerset County and to help community members avoid poor living situations, including homelessness.

SCCOAH's Housing Resource Center is Somerset County's only centralized housing information source, assisting approximately 4,000 households each year by providing a wealth of information on affordable housing options in the county, at no charge to the client. SCCOAH monitors fair housing practices, provides information on improving credit, offers seminars, counsels victims of discrimination and offers information on who to contact for affordable rentals, resales and new sale affordable units in Somerset County.

Offered at least six times a year, SCCOAH's Step By Step is a counseling and planning program for families wishing to increase their knowledge of the home-buying process. Each year SCCOAH offers the First Time Home Buyer Seminar and Expo; the next one is scheduled for Saturday, October 18 at the Somerville Elks. Participants receive instruction on all aspects of buying a home and are able to learn more about area banks, mortgage representatives, home inspectors, attorneys, realtors and others that are instrumental in purchasing a home.

"I still can't believe I'm a homeowner," said Michelle. "Getting my house was just like winning the lottery. The most amazing thing was that, though I had my doubts, thanks to this program money was not an issue and I had enough for my down payment. It was tempting to give up but it was so worth it to follow through."

This past month, more than 50 people have graduated from SCCOAH's most recent First Home Club and are now on their way to owning homes of their own. The graduates were diverse, low-income individuals, new families, couples and seniors. But, one thing they share is their dream and determination to purchase a home of their own. Thanks to SCCOAH, their dream is that much closer to being a reality.

For more information about SCCOAH, please call (908) 704-8901 or visit their website at www.sccoah.org. For additional information about the First Home Club, please contact Jay Castillo or Kristen Tice at (908) 429-2367.

An independent nonprofit organization that acts as a catalyst for positive change, Somerset County United Way supports health and human services providers by raising funds and effectively investing them, developing volunteer resources and building community collaboratives and partnerships. Your donations to the Community Care Fund make it possible for Somerset County United Way to fund 92 critical health and human services programs through 55 affiliated agencies. Funding decisions are made by trained volunteers who represent the community. More than 88 cents of every dollar donated supports programs that provide food and shelter, quality child and elder care, emergency services, youth development, healthcare services and more. For information more information, visit www.somersetcountyunitedway.org or call (908) 725-6640.

It was no ordinary day of work for a group of employees from Pharmaceutical Sourcing Group Americas (PSGA), a Division of Ortho-McNeil Pharmaceutical, Inc. and a Johnson & Johnson company, when they spent a portion of their day playing Bingo and socializing with new friends. The generous volunteers called out numbers, presented gifts and chatted with the seniors they had come to see at the New Jersey Eastern Star Home in Bridgewater. Their volunteer project, organized by the group through Somerset County United Way’s Volunteer Services, was a fun and enjoyable experience for all.

“Our group, which consists of about 12 employees from several departments, started visiting Eastern Star in September 2002 as a United Way Day of Caring activity,” said Myrna Samski, a senior administrative assistant at PSGA and team lead for the PSGA Eastern Star visitors. “The enthusiasm generated by the first visit inspired the group to establish quarterly visits. Visiting with the seniors at the Eastern Star Home is just one of many ways we support the Johnson & Johnson credo, as well as United Way activities.”

In addition to visiting with the Home’s residents, the volunteers presented the seniors with heart-shaped potpourri sachets that were made for them by members of the Great Valley Council Junior Girl Scout Troop #33 from Bethlehem, Pa. “The girls were most excited when presented with the challenge of making the heart sachets for the elderly,” said Valerie Sapirman, R.Ph., interim director of Semisolids Technical Development for PSGA, the girls’ troop leader and mother of one of the scouts. “The girls were thrilled to be involved with this since the United Way supports Girl Scouting. They also thought it was wonderful to send their handmade craft over the Delaware to a group in New Jersey.”

“The PSGA folks are such a great group,” said Anne-Marie LeMaire, activity director for Eastern Star. “They always spend lots of one-on-one time with the residents and they bring them such fabulous gifts. Many of them have experience with older people and it really shows in the way they interact and visit with the residents here. Everyone always looks forward to their visits.”

The New Jersey Eastern Star Home is a nonprofit long-term care and residential facility that is dedicated to preserving the dignity and individuality of each person. The Home, which provides residential, nursing and respite care, offers its care recipients medical care, supervision, learning experiences, fun and companionship. Their wide variety of activities and amenities include exercise and discussion groups, cooking clubs, bingo, crafts and tea and cocktail parties. Residents also enjoy trips to community parks, shopping centers, the dinner theater and many other entertaining excursions.

True to the Johnson & Johnson credo to be responsible to the communities in which they live and work, PSGA employees volunteer year-round to help local, nonprofit agencies that provide the community with invaluable health and human services programs. Thanks to generosity like theirs, agencies are better able to use their resources to care for those less fortunate and provide valuable and enriching services to the community. Located in Raritan, PSGA integrates Johnson & Johnson’s pharmaceutical operations and quality assurance organizations within the Americas, thereby enhancing supply chain performance.

“PSGA cares for our neighbors in need through participation in a number of United Way programs that establish both short-term and long-term support to our community,” said Paul Dudek, manager of volunteer services for United Way. “PSGA donates not only money and in-kind donations to Somerset County, but has also allowed their employees the chance to have the hands-on experience of helping others.”

For more information about how you can make a difference by volunteering, please contact United Way’s Volunteer Services at (908) 253-6506 or e-mail VolunteerCenter@uwscty.org. For information on current volunteer opportunities, nonprofit agencies and services in Somerset County, visit Somerset Online at www.SomersetOnline.org.

For more information about New Jersey Eastern Star Home, please contact them at (908) 722-4140.

An independent nonprofit organization that acts as a catalyst for positive change, Somerset County United Way supports health and human services providers by raising funds and effectively investing them, developing volunteer resources and building community collaboratives and partnerships. Your donations to the Community Care Fund make it possible for Somerset County United Way to fund 92 critical health and human services programs through 55 affiliated agencies. Funding decisions are made by trained volunteers who represent the community. More than 88 cents of every dollar donated supports programs that provide food and shelter, quality child and elder care, emergency services, youth development, healthcare services and more. For information more information, visit www.SomersetCountyUnitedWay.org or call (908) 725-6640.

Lisa D'Ottavio recently became a street outreach counselor at the Somerset Home for Temporarily Displaced Children, a Somerset County United Way-affiliated agency. The Street S.M.A.R.T. street outreach program was developed to meet the needs of adolescents between the ages of 13 and 21 who are living on the street or in other unsafe environments. Street outreach offers homeless youth respite from hunger, cold, loneliness and sexual victimization, along with the opportunity to reclaim for themselves a sense of dignity and worth.

In her new role, Ms. D'Ottavio joins Paula Taylor, who has been a Somerset Home street outreach counselor for more than two years. The two counselors encourage youth to leave the streets by helping them to build individual strengths and by supporting the youth's right to set goals and make decisions for him/herself. Counselors must earn respect with the street population by maintaining contact, by providing services without pressuring youth to leave the streets before they are comfortable doing so, by providing accurate and meaningful information, and by treating each youth as an individual. With every contact, meal, counseling session, group meeting and referral provided, the outreach counselors communicate to youth a concern for their lives and a belief in their potential.

Ms. D'Ottavio has been with Somerset Home since 2000. Hired as a resident advisor, she has since progressed to an administrative associate and has obtained a bachelor's degree from Rutgers College. Ms. Taylor also joined Somerset Home as a youth counselor in 2000 and was promoted to street outreach counselor in June 2002. She is a Jersey City State College graduate with a bachelor's degree in sociology.

The Somerset Home, incorporated in 1970, is an agency dedicated to meeting the needs of abused and neglected adolescents. The agency provides four programs to adolescents and their families: The Somerset Youth Shelter, Pathways, Passages and Street S.M.A.R.T. street outreach.

The Somerset Youth Shelter provides a short-term, crisis intervention program to boys and girls, aged 13 to 18. Pathways, a non-residential program, provides life-skills education to adolescents, aged 15 to 21, in the form of weekly workshops, weekend retreats, and one-on-one outreach. Passages, a transitional living program, provides young people, aged 16 to 21 with the skills needed to live independently upon graduation from the program (which is between 6 and 18 months). For information on Somerset Home's other programs, visit their website at www.somersethome.org.

Chris Nielsen was devoted to helping those less fortunate find a happier, healthier and better life. Before his death in December 1998, Chris was vice president of Manufacturing for National Starch and Chemical Company, a member of the ICI Group. But, he was also a dedicated and valued Somerset County United Way (SCUW) volunteer who believed, “When a person sees first-hand the need in the community and the work performed by United Way and member agencies, the giving of an individual’s personal time is easy.”

Though it may have seemed easy to Chris to give of himself as both a hardworking volunteer and a leadership giver, Chris’ strong commitment to the community was far-reaching. Chris and his wife, Eileen, made generous financial contributions to the SCUW Community Care Fund that supports valuable health and human service programs providing community members with crucial quality care. These programs address our community’s most critical issues including child care and development, substance abuse prevention and recovery, health-related services, care for the elderly and people with disabilities, job training, literacy, crisis services and basic needs such as food and shelter.

Dedicated to making a difference, Chris was also active on numerous United Way committees that strive to create helpful resources for those in need. He served as vice chair of the Board of Trustees for Somerset County United Way and chair of United Way’s Community Problem Solving Committee. He also volunteered on United Way’s COMPASS Steering Committee and as a fund distribution and agency recertification volunteer.

“Chris brought a common sense, sound and quality-focused approach from his professional life to his community work,” said Lynn Weckworth, vice president of Community Initiatives at SCUW. “His use of those skills and his genuine and compassionate concern for the well-being of others helped to make a significant difference in the lives of people in need in Somerset County throughout his volunteer career.”

Chris worked tirelessly to improve the quality of life for everyone in Somerset County. A dedicated volunteer, he went about his work in a deliberate and purposeful manner, never seeking public recognition for his efforts but always true to his desire to help others.

“I feel quite proud and fortunate to say that Chris Nielsen was very typical of many National Starch employees in that he was a true professional,” said James Kennedy, former chairman and CEO of National Starch and Chemical Company. “He was also typical in that he reached out to the community and added significant value as a classic, outstanding volunteer. Chris was truly a man of great integrity who was highly focused and results-oriented. As chairman and chief executive officer, I was very proud to have people such as Chris working for and representing the company.”

Today, Chris’ wife, Eileen, continues in their tradition of caring for those less fortunate by donating to SCUW as a leadership giver and volunteering with the Suburban Cultural Educational Enrichment Program as a tutor, and at the Paige Whitney Babies Center. She is also involved in SCUW’s Special Gifts Letter Writers campaign. Members of the Letter Writers campaign, most of whom are residents of the Somerset Hills area, write personalized requests to their friends, neighbors and acquaintances seeking donations through United Way to aid those in need.

On Thursday, April 24, the Courier News and Somerset County United Way will honor Somerset County’s outstanding volunteers at the 13th annual STAR Awards event at the Edward Nash Theatre at Raritan Valley Community College. The Christian T. Nielsen Unsung Hero awards will also be presented at the event and are intended to recognize staff and volunteers who produce exceptional results in the delivery of health and human services to people in need in Somerset County. The awards are presented to both a volunteer and employee in the health and human services field who go above and beyond to serve people in need in Somerset County.

The awards were created to pay tribute to people who give of themselves the way Mr. Nielsen did, quietly, effectively and with the utmost care and concern for the good of the community. The volunteer recipient will be someone who brought specific skills to their volunteer efforts at a health and human services agency, that resulted in significant benefits to those in need. The staff recipient will be someone who performed their job at a health and human services agency in a fashion that far exceeded expectations with the results of significant benefits to the quality of life for one or more clients. Both will be honored for performing their duties and responsibilities without fanfare or expectation of recognition for their efforts.

“Having worked with Chris for over 10 years, I was able to experience first-hand his generosity and dedication, both to his family and the community,” said Anna Romeo who served as senior executive secretary to Chris and is currently administrative coordinator at National Starch. “He was a kind and caring man who gave freely of his time and knowledge. A no-nonsense type of guy, once Chris knew what was needed, he went ahead and got the job done with no fuss or fanfare. Through his example and leadership, many of his colleagues, including myself, have been inspired to get involved in the community and with the United Way. Eileen Nielsen is by nature a sweet, caring, generous person and it is wonderful to see her carry on the Nielsen legacy. My life has been made richer by knowing them.”

“I had the pleasure of knowing and working with Chris for years,” said Pat Piazza, senior director of resource development for SCUW. “Chris and Eileen had such a lovely relationship and were truly partners in caring for others. It’s touching to me that Eileen continues to give to the community as Chris and she did. I’m sure there are times when it is difficult for her as she must often be reminded of Chris. At the same time, what better way to immortalize someone than by continuing their tradition of making a positive difference for so many. I can’t express enough how thankful I am to have known Chris and to call Eileen a friend.”

For more information about how you can make a difference in your community, please call (908) 725-6640 or visit their website at www.SomersetCountyUnitedWay.org.

An independent nonprofit organization that acts as a catalyst for positive change, Somerset County United Way supports health and human services providers by raising funds and effectively investing them, developing volunteer resources and building community collaboratives and partnerships Your donations to the Community Care Fund make it possible for Somerset County United Way to fund 92 critical health and human services programs through 55 affiliated agencies. Funding decisions are made by trained volunteers who represent the community. More than 88 cents of every dollar donated supports programs that provide food and shelter, quality child and elder care, emergency services, youth development, healthcare services and more.

Five years ago, French, Tim Fraser, another Far Hills resident who worked for him, and Lu Huggins of Basking Ridge, a Matheny Board of Trustees member, conceived the idea of Miles for Matheny, a cycle ride that would raise funds for the Peapack-based facility. The event started in 1998 with cycle rides of 35 and 66 miles, attracted 112 participants and raised $13,600.

Last year, Miles for Matheny, which now includes four cycle rides, a 5K running race, a three-mile walk and a 1.5-mile walk and wheelchair ride, attracted 600 participants and raised just over $59,000. And this year’s event, April 27 at Liberty Park in Peapack, is aiming much higher. French, Huggins and Fraser (now an attorney) still serve on the Miles for Matheny committee, which has more than 20 members including several other residents of Basking Ridge, Bedminster and Peapack-Gladstone.

On the day of the event, French is the outreach arm for all the cyclers. He goes out with his van to help wherever he can – repairing and patching tires, transporting people back and forth and just generally troubleshooting. According to Fay Mackey, Matheny director of development, French’s support has been invaluable. "Early on," Mackey says, "he put the support of his store behind the event. And, from the very beginning, he has provided one of the grand prizes, which in recent years has been a mountain bike." In addition, Mackey says, French’s whole family is involved with Miles, "and they have recruited lots of other people in the community to help."

French is a member of the Bedminster Flyers, the cycling club that originates its rides at his store. The Flyers are big supporters of Miles for Matheny, having designed new bike routes last year. Three Flyers, in addition to French, are on the Miles for Matheny committee, and members of the Flyers serve as ride leaders.

The Sports People, which opened on Main Street in Bedminster in 1975, expanded to its present location in 1994. It sells a variety of sports equipment, from bicycles to fly fishing rods to skis. But The Sports People credo has always been its interactivity with its customers. In addition to selling equipment, the store makes an extra effort to help its customers participate in events and trips. The same passion that Steve French puts into his store is applied to his involvement in Miles for Matheny. Recalling Miles for Matheny's modest beginnings, he says, "I always wanted it to get bigger. My goal is for it to reach six figures."

This year, money raised from Miles for Matheny will be used to help fund the new Matheny Center of Medicine and Dentistry, which will provide much-needed outpatient medical and dental services for children and adults with disabilities in the community. The major sponsor of Miles this year is again Johnson & Johnson Somerset County Companies. For more information about how to participate, pledge funds or volunteer, call (908) 234-0011, ext. 308, or log onto milesformatheny.org.

Mike Elbaum knows first-hand that exercise can change your life. A member of the Somerset Valley YMCA, a Somerset County United Way-affiliated agency, Mike used the resources of the Y to make some changes in his life.

In June 2002, Elbaum, a Hillsborough, N.J. resident, weighed in at 280 lbs. The realization of that and the ensuing mid life crisis prompted him to make some life-altering changes. Though Elbaum had been a member at the Y since 1997, he didn't take full advantage of his membership until he started swimming five days a week in 2002 -- one mile a day. He also changed his eating habits by cutting down on fats and sweets and having smaller portions. By the end of August 2002, Mike's weight was down by 40 pounds. His cholesterol, which had been 259 at his heaviest, was 179.

Elbaum then spoke with Susan Leacy, sr. fitness director at the Somerset Valley YMCA, about adding cardio classes to his workout. He felt he was ready for group classes since he had more self-esteem about his physical appearance. Beginning with step aerobics two times a week in September, Pilates classes were added twice a week. By the fourth session of fitness programs (each session is eight weeks in length), Mike's blood pressure dropped from 196/94 to 120/84, he lost an additional 32 pounds and gained muscle mass. He even gained 1 ¾" in height due to Pilates class. Even more surprising, his right leg, which has always been shorter than his left, was now the same size. Mike no longer needs to have his pants custom tailored.

Besides Mike's five-day-a-week commitment to exercising at the Somerset Valley YMCA, he is a busy husband and father of two children, ages 5 and 8, is a substitute teacher for the local school district and works with computers in the evening. He seemingly thrives with only 3 to 4 hours of sleep each night, a fact that he attributes to his increased endorphin level.

Mike Elbaum has a new lease on life and a new direction. He is truly an inspiration. Mike says that the YMCA will always be a part of his life and feels he has realized the mind, body, spirit connection by coming to the Somerset Valley YMCA.

For more information on the Somerset Valley YMCA, call them at (908) 722-4567.

Training to be an athlete can be a difficult and grueling process. But, when you add to that personal difficulties, it can seem almost impossible. Angela had always enjoyed running and competed in local competitions and after-school programs. Though she excelled at the sport, problems at home kept her from joining a school track team. Eventually the issues she was forced to deal with led her to the Somerset Home for Temporarily Displaced Children, a Somerset County United Way-affiliated agency. It was here that she found the support and peace of mind that allowed her to resume her dream of competing in the sport she loved.

Located in Bridgewater, the Somerset Home for Temporarily Displaced Children is a nonprofit agency that provides a variety of crucial services to youth and young adults who are at risk of becoming homeless or being maltreated. The agency assists more than 400 adolescents and young adults each year and is dedicated to teaching youth the skills necessary to develop healthy relationships and live a responsible and productive life. Through the Somerset Home’s programs, children are nurtured in a supportive environment to break the cycle of abuse and strife, enabling them as adults to ultimately establish their own healthy families and futures.

With gentle encouragement from the staff at Somerset Home, Angela joined the winter track team as a high school sophomore. Word of her abilities had preceded her arrival and her coach, who had learned of her talent from her past gym teacher, greeted her with confidence stating, “We’ll have a good season now that you’re here.” Confidence and kindness from those around her were infectious and a proud Angela again excelled

She began to receive ribbons at track events and soon enough earned her varsity letter. By the time the spring track season arrived, Angela and her relay team were winning more medals and ribbons. Angela improved her time in the 400-meter run from 64.4 seconds to 62.5 seconds and in the 100-meter run from 14.1 seconds to 12.5 seconds. Her team broke the school record for the 4x2 (800-meter) relay. Accolades for Angela became a regular sight in the sports section of the local newspaper.

“We came a long way,” states Angela of her team and herself. “I’ve learned to take a loss for a loss and a win for a win. I like to see how hard I can push myself.” Clearly, Angela has applied this philosophy not only to her athletic life but to her personal life as well. With the help of the caring and able staff at the Somerset Home for Temporarily Displaced Children, Angela was able to rise above personal difficulties and make a life for herself filled with success, support and the ability to overcome.

“It’s satisfying to see the young people who come to us thrive when they are given relief from the difficult family situations they’ve been dealing with,” said Jeffrey Fetzko, executive director of Somerset Home.

Somerset County United Way’s Community Care Fund provides financial support to The Somerset Home for Displaced Children and other nonprofit agencies that provide crucial services. You can make a difference in someone’s life by supporting the Community Care Fund. To make a donation, visit United Way’s website at www.somersetcountyunitedway.org or call them at (908) 725-6640. For more information about programs and services offered by The Somerset Home for Temporarily Displaced Children, call (908) 526-6605.

An independent nonprofit organization that acts as a catalyst for positive change, Somerset County United Way supports health and human services providers by raising funds and effectively investing them, developing volunteer resources and building community collaboratives and partnerships Your donations to the Community Care Fund make it possible for Somerset County United Way to fund 92 critical health and human services programs through 55 affiliated agencies. Funding decisions are made by trained volunteers who represent the community. More than 88 cents of every dollar donated supports programs that provide food and shelter, quality child and elder care, emergency services, youth development, healthcare services and more. For information about local nonprofit agencies or for volunteer opportunities, visit www.SomersetOnline.org.

Visiting Nurse Association of Somerset Hills
12 Olcott Avenue
Bernardsville, NJ 07924
(908) 766-0180

The Visiting Nurse Association (VNA) of Somerset Hills provides individuals and families with comprehensive, high quality, cost-effective home and community health care services. This purpose is achieved by: Providing part-time skilled nursing care to those ill at home; Providing Hospice care to terminally ill individuals and their families; Providing a continuum of supportive community services designed to enable individuals to remain in their homes, and to prevent or delay institutionalization; and Participating in the development of community resources for the promotion of health and care of the sick.
In June 2000 the VNA received a call from a daughter regarding the needs of her parents (Mr. And Mrs. Johnson*) who live down the street from her. Mr. Johnson was described as having moderate to late stage Alzheimer's disease with spinal degeneration and congestive heart failure. He was unable to speak and was incontinent. His 78-year-old wife provided the bulk of his care. Mrs. Johnson suffered from rheumatoid arthritis and newly developed asthma. She reported being tired; however, she was determined to care for her husband without the help of a home health aide. The daughter was looking for guidance in terms of needs assessment and types of available resources. The daughter explained that her parents had no schedule and often her Dad slept until 3:00 p.m. She also inquired about hospice care as she felt her Dad was deteriorating. We referred them to our In-Home Caregiver Education Program and the family applied for a companion through the Respite Program.

A Care Manager met with the family (2 daughters and Mr. & Mrs. Johnson). A decision was made and Mrs. Johnson agreed that a companion could come in one day per week to give her a break and provide socialization for Mr. Johnson. In addition, the Care Manager, through the In-Home Caregiver Ed Program, arranged for a social worker and a physical therapist to evaluate and intervene in order to help ease the strain on Mrs. Johnson. The family received instructions through the physical therapist, and both daughters and their mother participated.

The companion started in mid July and all reported that it worked out "wonderfully". By the end of July, the companion reported that Mrs. Johnson was hospitalized with a heart attack. The companion agreed to come for the next three days so the daughter could attend to her mother's needs in the hospital. The daughter reported that they were all thankful for the instructions they had received, because they had to use all that they had learned while they provided the necessary care for their Dad. The daughters questioned what they would do if they had an emergency. Referrals were given for facility and live-in help, but it was not necessary for them to utilize these services.

By August Mrs. Johnson was released from the hospital and was able to resume normal activity, but was advised by her doctor that she could not continue to provide the direct care of her husband. Arrangements were made to have a home health aide come two times a week and a companion would also make visits two times per week. Both the home health aide and the companion have come to be seen as "members" of this family.

The daughters are very anxious to have a live-in to help more consistently, but Mrs. Johnson is resistant to having any more help at this time. These issues have been discussed, but the family is still committed to honoring their father's dignity. Mrs. Johnson wishes to continue to provide the necessary caregiving to her husband despite her own failing health. In order to respect her wishes and to learn about alternative approaches to caregiving the daughters drove Mrs. Johnson to the five week course on caregiving strategies "Caring for Me" which is given by the VNA of Somerset Hills staff.

This is a wonderful example of the strong commitment of families to provide the necessary care for their loved ones and the oftentimes changing needs of those family members as they attempt to provide this care. The range of services that are available through the VNA of Somerset Hills was very evident as the needs of this particular family changed and additional services became necessary. Many times families request only minimal services and often need to be gently persuaded to accept supportive programs, just as this family experienced.

* Names changed for privacy

Somerset Home for Temporarily Displaced Children
49 Brahma Avenue
Bridgewater, NJ 08807
(908) 526-6605

The Somerset Home for Temporarily Displaced Children is a nonprofit agency that provides a variety of crucial services to youth and young adults who are at risk of becoming homeless or being mistreated. The agency serves runaway and homeless youth from New York to Philadelphia and assists more than 300 children, teens, and families each year. A range of programs are offered, including the Somerset Youth Shelter, Pathways Life Skills Education and Outreach and the Passages Transitional Living Program.

*Rosa brought a lot of baggage with her to the Home's Passages Transitional Living Program. Unfortunately, it wasn't luggage; it was memories of a traumatic childhood. She had been in six foster homes throughout her life because her mother had a problem with drugs and alcohol. Rosa's relationship with her mother was subject to the influence of her mother's many boyfriends.

After spending a year living with her mother when she was 16, her mother kicked her out of the house because she was pregnant. Rosa lost the baby. Shortly after, Rosa found her way to Passages. Passages is a residential program that helps young men and women, ages 16-21, make the successful transition to independent living. Care recipients receive life-skills education in order to live independently in the community after leaving the program. Upon completion of the program, graduates are provided with outreach and support to increase their capacity to live productive and independent lives. At Passages, Rosa found people she could trust and who provided her with guidance and love. She realized she "had a second chance."

The staff worked to improve her self-esteem and made sure she stayed in school. They helped her to get along with others and taught her to respect herself and others. She learned about give and take and the importance of leaving the past behind. Passages also helped Rosa find part-time work and now she is proud to report she has saved $400. The life-skills education program taught her about budgeting, finding jobs and interviewing. She says the Passages staff "had a lot of faith in me."

Rosa is currently a high school senior and is very anxious to receive her diploma because no one in her family has gone beyond a sixth grade education. She is considering several career options including photography, fashion design, teaching and counseling. Rosa's senior year has been very uplifting for her. With the support of Passages staff and Somerset Home loyal donors, she was able to attend her senior prom, and on her eighteenth birthday Passages had a party for her. She says that her Passages family showed her love and made her feel special.

Now Rosa has decided she is ready for another new start. She will be moving to San Diego to live with the family of her best friend. She is a little sad to be leaving her friends at Passages but she is anxious to start her new life.

*Name changed to protect privacy.

Women's Health & Counseling Center
95 Veteran's Memorial Drive East
Somerville, NJ 08876
(908) 526-2335

Located in Somerville, the Women's Health & Counseling Center (WHCC) has been providing services to women in need for more than a quarter of a century. A community-based, nonprofit agency, WHCC offers personalized health care for women, particularly those who may not be able to obtain such services from traditional providers due to financial, cultural, language or other barriers. The agency's goal is to provide a safe haven where compassionate and high-quality services are available. Services include medical and preventive care as well as counseling and support programs. By educating women to make informed health care choices, the agency strives to promote healthier communities.

Following are some of the testimonials received by the organization for their efforts:
"I can't thank you enough for all your support and guidance through an extremely difficult time in my life. You really made me feel comfortable and at ease enough to share some difficult things with you, and I even cried in front of you, which is rare for me. You truly have a gift, and I wish you continued success in all your work at the center."

"The graciousness with which you treated me was exceeded only by your skill. I had anticipated a clinic exam would be hurried and somewhat condescending; you and the staff treated me as a lady."

"I would like to say 'Thank you' for having such a wonderful staff at your Women's Health & Counseling Center…I have been a patient there for the last 10 years. All of your employees that I have interacted with are beautiful people inside and out…Every time I've ever called or came in, no matter how busy the Center was, I felt as though I was the only patient there when it came time for me."

"Special thanks for your humanitarian warmth and the unconditional attention that I received at my Raritan Valley Community College examination. Thank you for treating me like a human being - conscientious of my emotional as well as physical composition. You make me fell dignified and kept the beauty of womanhood in a medical setting. Know that your efforts did not go unappreciated."

For more than twenty years, the Resource Center for Women and Their Families has been in step with the needs of battered women, dedicated to the mission of preventing domestic violence by providing protection, education and resources to empower victims. Through a variety of supportive services they offer victims support, information, help and a chance to live a life that is free of violence and based on respect. The Center offers legal advocacy in Superior and municipal courts, an emergency shelter, children's services, community education and crisis intervention teams. Their programs also include transitional services, professional training, a clergy partnership, Spanish language services, 24-hour hotline (908-685-1122), handicapped accessibility, counseling and pendant security alarm systems. All services for victims are confidential and free of charge.

*Sharon is a 37 year-old African American woman with three children. She was physically, emotionally and verbally abused by her boyfriend of ten years. Sharon sought refuge in the Resource Center's emergency shelter with her children ages 16, 9, and 5 years. They remained in shelter for the maximum stay of 60 days, and from there entered their Transitional Program while awaiting approval for Section 8 housing. Sharon's goals while in the Transitional Program were to secure permanent housing for herself and her children and to earn a college degree. While Sharon was a resident in the Transitional Program, her employer began downsizing their staff, and a number of employees, including Sharon, were told they would be losing their jobs. She did not wait to lose her job; instead she began searching for other employment. Sharon did find a new job, which paid more than her prior position. In addition, she received her Section 8 approval and secured an apartment after 19 months in the Transitional residence. Sharon is now enrolled in college and is majoring in pastoral counseling. Through a referral from a counselor, she was awarded a scholarship by the Sunshine Lady Foundation to pay for her books and tuition. The Sunshine Lady Foundation is an organization located in North Carolina that provides scholarships for domestic violence victims. They believe that to stop the cycle of violence, victims need to become independent and self-sufficient. Sharon and her children are doing very well. Her son (age 9) recently made the honor roll and her daughter, now 17, is planning to go to college. She continues to see her Outreach counselor for ongoing support.

*Diane is a 39 year-old Caucasian woman of Polish descent. She has two children, ages 10 and 6. Her husband abused her physically, emotionally and sexually for 12 of the 15 years of their marriage. Diane called the Resource Center's hotline to obtain help and over an 8-year period she attended support group and individual counseling. At times she would not come in for several months, but would eventually return for additional support as she struggled to survive in her marriage. When her husband's violence escalated to the level where he pointed a shotgun at her and the children, she left him. She moved in with her mother and got a restraining order with the support of the Resource Center's Legal Advocate. Diane made a promise to herself and her children that they would never again live in a violent home. She became more committed to participating in counseling and joined the Resource Center's Single Moms' Support Group. Diane returned to school and received her GED. In January, she began college and is majoring in nursing. Diane was not only awarded a scholarship by the Sunshine Lady Foundation to pay for her tuition and books, she was also awarded an additional $2,500 to assist her with other expenses such as food, transportation and childcare. She is in the process of divorcing her husband. Diane and her children are doing very well, and she is extremely proud of her accomplishments.

*Names are changed to protect privacy.

The mission of the Arc of Somerset County is to provide advocacy and services for persons with developmental disabilities and their families. The Arc is dedicated to promoting the principles of individual informed choice, community inclusion and the prevention of disabilities. Today, The Arc serves more than 800 children, adults and their families in more than 20 locations. Their specialized and valuable programs assist people with developmental disabilities in becoming vital members of their communities and successful in all they do.

In order to provide a safe and happy summer for individuals with disabilities, The Arc offers Camp Jotoni, a day and residential summer camp for children and adults ages 5-21. The camp is open for seven weeks and accommodates up to 100 day campers and 40 residential campers.

*Tyson is a 15-year-old camper that has been attending Camp Jotoni for 5 years. He looks forward to the experience of Camp Jotoni each summer. While he is somewhat quiet, he has made several friends over these five years.

Tyson has been able to thrive given the level of support provided through our program. During his first years, Tyson was afraid to take risks during swimming and singing activities. That is not the case today. Tyson even encourages the younger campers to participate in camp activities.

Last year, Tyson set goals for himself to gain employment skills. On his own, he arranged to help the maintenance staff with the maintenance schedule. After observing his efforts and being impressed with his initiative, Camp Administration discussed the possibility of limited employment for Tyson during the summer of 2002 at Camp Jotoni.

Tyson is thrilled with this possibility. Although, he reserves the right to swim on hot days, Tyson says that he is looking forward to his new role at Camp Jotoni. Due to the support and structure of Camp Jotoni, an environment was created which fostered Tyson's own initiative. Camp will provide a safe environment for a young boy to demonstrate his skills on a part time basis as an employee and a camper.

The Arc offers a number of programs that provide support, education and care to enhance the quality of life for those served. For example, the Jerry Davis Early Childhood Center strives to ensure the optimal growth and development of every child by providing services to children from birth through six who are delayed in at least two areas of growth or are medically or environmentally at risk for learning disabilities. Their Parents and Children Together (PACT) program teaches parents through role modeling and lends additional support through home intervention. Their Consumer Employment Service program provides job training. Arc's Residential Services provide support to over 90 individuals living in the community, in various arrangements (supervised and unsupervised), such as group homes, apartments and supported living.

*Name changed to protect privacy

For more than three decades, Somerset Treatment Services has been attending to the needs of individuals and families who are victims of substance abuse and related concerns. Originally conceived in 1970 as The Somerset Drug Clinic, the clinic has evolved into a multi-service, nonprofit treatment center committed to providing programs that are both affordable and responsive to the needs of all residents of Somerset County and surrounding communities. The agency delivers comprehensive substance abuse and treatment/testing programs, community education, appropriate referrals, and a prepared response to the AIDS crisis.

Sharon* was raised in a conservative upper class home, the daughter of a vice-president of a large Somerset County corporation. Although she appeared to have all the advantages afforded by a comfortable lifestyle, she felt highly pressured by parental expectations and began to reject her family's lifestyle while she was in high school, abusing alcohol and marijuana. She began using heroin at age 18, also using cocaine on occasion and attending raves with her boyfriend, Joseph. Upon her admission to Somerset Treatment Services in December, 2000. Sharon was using 5-7 bags of heroin daily and had no prior treatment. Despite a long history of diabetes, which was significantly complicated by her heroin use, she was not certain she was ready to make the significant changes required to arrest her drug use.

Joseph* started using heroin at age 15, having used marijuana and cocaine prior to that time. He was also into the club scene, seeking out raves up and down the East Coast. By the time he came to Somerset Treatment Services seeking help in December of 2000, he had been using heroin for five years, snorting 5-7 bags daily. Joseph had no prior treatment for his drug problem and was also not certain he was ready to quit using drugs. He appeared mildly depressed and defensive, and not seriously committed to treatment.

Sharon and Joseph were dating. When this couple presented for treatment, the medical director's initial prognosis for them was guarded, at best. With lack of prior treatment and the apparent lack of readiness to change, he feared they might have difficulty succeeding. However, he was willing to offer the couple an opportunity to recover from their addiction through the Opioid Treatment Program.

After getting off to a faulty start in their recovery, the two teens made a commitment to become abstinent in January 2001. They began attending appointments regularly and gradually began to address their critical issues. Joseph recognized the rejection by his father, coupled with his parents' divorce, as significant to his development. When Joseph's younger brother began to repeat Joseph's patterns of drug abuse, the relevance of the father's abuse of alcohol to the addiction of his sons became readily apparent. Initially, Joseph underwent a period of separation from his family. Through counseling, Joseph learned to let go of his need for acceptance by his father and was able to reestablish regular contact with his parents. Sharon had to address her issues regarding her parents' expectations of her as well as to face her parents' rejection of Joseph. Through this process, she became much closer to her family and eventually regained their trust.

Through treatment, this couple has made a significant number of changes in a relatively brief period of time. Joseph has been abstinent from heroin for over a year, acquired a better job, developed a plan to resume his education, improved his relationships with his parents, and overcame his depression. Sharon has been abstinent from heroin for over a year, enrolled in school, dramatically improved her relationship with her family, and significantly improved her attitude and her responsibility. The prognosis for this couple is considerably improved. They are leading lives that contribute to society and that make their parents - and themselves - proud.

Al* represents a very different picture of clinical success. He presented in April 2001 as a 56-year-old divorced male with a 40-year history of alcohol abuse, limited prior treatment, and notable period of abstinence. All of the significant males in his family had a history of alcohol abuse. During his years of alcohol dependency, Al had gone through 2 fortunes, was drunk during his entire marriage, and had lost contact with his 2 grown children. He was significantly depressed and suffered from tremendous guilt. Through counseling and psychiatric care, Al was able to become more assertive, overcome his depression, and become abstinent for the first time in his life. Most importantly, he reestablished contact with his children and now has a good relationship with his daughter. He exemplifies the critical need to combine psychiatric care with substance abuse treatment to address the concurrent issues. Through this comprehensive approach to individualized client needs, Al now has a new life and hope for the future.

*Names are changed to protect privacy

This year, more than 3,300 people received a holiday gift through this annual program.

“Helping others is a great way to get into the holiday spirit,” said Irene Natale, community and volunteer services associate with United Way. “A record number of 6,738 gifts were donated, worth an estimated $164,450. While we were glad to be able to help more people this year, it is also sad to see that the number of people in need in our county continues to grow. But this was an impressive response by the community.

“For many recipients, the gift they get through this program will be the only holiday gift they receive,” said Natale. “And, they appreciate not just the gift itself, but the knowledge that someone in their community cares.”

Participants in the program included employees at local businesses, members of church organizations and service groups as well as the community at large. Each received a gift tag from United Way with information about a specific child, adult or senior in need in our area. They could then choose the item(s) they wanted to purchase and donate. Those collecting the donated gifts delivered them the week of December 9, unwrapped, to a warehouse in Bound Brook donated by Advanced Realty Group. There, the gifts were sorted and prepared for distribution by more than 225 volunteers. The gifts were then distributed to the families on December 14. Food baskets prepared by the Food Bank Network of Somerset County, a United Way-funded agency, were donated along with the gifts.

“A celebration of this holiday season was made possible for so many families by the commitment of the community,” said Marie Scannell, director of the Food Bank Network of Somerset County. “Through Gifts of the Season, churches, civic groups and our local corporations and businesses all came together to help. The gifts were wonderful. We have a very generous community.”

“Volunteers donated more than 1,010 hours of their time to make this program possible,” said Paul Dudek, manager of Somerset County United Way’s Volunteer Center. The volunteers came from Aventis, AT&T, BEA Systems, Chubb, Ethicon, FedEx, Johnson & Johnson, Liberty Mutual, Merck, National Starch and Chemical Company, Phillips-Van Heusen, PSGA, the Somerset County Association of Young Professionals, the Somerset County Women’s Initiative and included individuals and families from the community. Gifts-in-kind donations were made by Advanced Realty Group, All Seasons Movers, Aventis, Rouse Company/Bridgewater Commons, Somerset Savings Bank, Somerset Valley Bank, Target stores in Bridgewater and Watchung and Girl Scout Troop #364 in Hillsborough.

“We had 81 local companies and organizations that participated in the Gifts of the Season program this year, that’s a 19 percent increase over last year,” said Dudek. “In particular, it’s great to see so many members of our local business community that are willing to get involved. Their participation in United Way programs such as Gifts of the Season makes a real difference in the lives of so many people.”

To learn more about participating in United Way programs or current volunteer opportunities in Somerset County, contact United Way’s Volunteer Center at (908) 253-6506 or visit www.SomersetOnline.org.

An independent nonprofit organization that acts as a catalyst for positive change, Somerset County United Way supports health and human services providers by raising funds and effectively investing them, developing volunteer resources and building community collaboratives and partnerships Your donations to the Community Care Fund make it possible for Somerset County United Way to fund 101 critical health and human services programs through 55 affiliated agencies. Funding decisions are made by trained volunteers who represent the community. More than 88 cents of every dollar donated supports programs that provide food and shelter, quality child and elder care, emergency services, youth development, healthcare services and more. For more information, visit www.somersetcountyunitedway.org.

Volunteers Construct a Reading Castle as a United Way Day of Caring Project

Somerset County, N.J. -- Students in Mrs. Durkin’s second grade class at West End School in North Plainfield were the happy beneficiaries of a very special United Way Day of Caring project when volunteers from Ethicon, Inc., a Johnson & Johnson Company, created a reading castle for their classroom. The castle, with a central gate and ramparts, will serve to define a special area of the classroom to be used exclusively for reading and writing projects.

The children could barely contain their excitement as the castle was assembled in their classroom by the volunteers. The majority of the volunteers were members of the Chinese American Association of Johnson & Johnson. They purchased the materials and spent several weekends working on the castle at the home of Dr. Chung-Yih Ho, vice president of research and development at CadioVations, a division of Ethicon, and chair of the Association.

“We spent five weekends working on the castle,” said Jia Hua Xiao, principal engineer in CardioVations research and development for Johnson & Johnson. “Many of the Johnson & Johnson employees also involved their children in the project to help teach them the importance of community service.”

“We were very happy with the way the castle turned out,” said Weefen Tsui of Ethicon. “We were excited as we completed each step in the construction.”

The volunteers said that while the project was a lot of fun for them, it was also a bit more complex than it looked. The volunteers enlisted the aid of another J&J co-worker to help with the design of the castle. The castle had to be made in ready-to-assemble pieces that could easily be moved. The pieces were also designed to fit together without the use of screws or bolts. It involved some complex carpentry, but the end result was impressive.

“This is more than we ever hoped for,” said teacher Mary Louise Durkin. “I can’t thank the volunteers enough. I know how much time and effort they put into this project. Our class will be inviting all of the volunteers and their families back to see our first class play using the castle as our set. This is just wonderful.”

This volunteer project was one of more than 120 projects promoted by Somerset County United Way as part of their Day of Caring program. Day of Caring offers employee groups the chance to help a local nonprofit agency or organization by providing hands-on assistance, most often with a one-day project. Since September, more than 1,300 people from 25 local companies have volunteered, providing help to more than 55 nonprofit agencies and organizations.

United Way’s Volunteer Center has information on current one-time and ongoing volunteer opportunities in our area for groups and individuals of all ages. To find out more, you can contact the Volunteer Center at (908) 253-6506 or visit Somerset Online at www.somersetonline.org.

An independent nonprofit organization that acts as a catalyst for positive change, Somerset County United Way supports health and human services providers by raising funds and effectively investing them, developing volunteer resources and building community collaboratives and partnerships. Your donations to the Community Care Fund make it possible for Somerset County United Way to fund 101 critical health and human services programs through 55 affiliated agencies. Funding decisions are made by trained volunteers who represent the community. More than 88 cents of every dollar donated supports programs that provide food and shelter, quality child and elder care, emergency services, youth development, healthcare services and more.

Aldona had a very prominent position in Lithuania and was not afraid to give speeches in her own language to a massive audience. Once in the United States though, she lost her confidence and her mind would go completely blank, for example, when giving a presentation in English in front of her college class about her own country.

Aldona reached out to the Literacy Volunteers of Somerset County, which operates on the principle that the ability to read and comprehend at a functional level is fundamental to one's quality of life, essential for the protection of individual freedom and necessary for ensuring equality of all people. Committed to encouraging literacy in Somerset County through student-centered tutoring for adults, LVSC offers free one-to-one tutoring, tutor training, tutor/student matching, library space for tutoring, ongoing training and valuable support materials. In order to accommodate students, tutors are available day or night throughout Somerset County to offer confidential tutoring. Students receive help in learning to read, getting their drivers license, completing job applications, becoming U.S. citizens, reading to their children, registering to vote, managing bank accounts, enter high school equivalency programs, understanding job-related materials and much more.

After an assessment of her skill level, Aldona was placed in their Basic Reading Program. Her goals were to improve all aspects of English - specifically grammar, telling time, and reading. She said that people sometimes did not understand her and she could not understand them. Near tears, when she described to her LVA Tutor, Yamuna, her inability to give a presentation to her college class, they decided to work at building her confidence level in reading, writing, and speaking in English. "I told her that self-confidence is essential for success and to be a successful person one needs to build up self-confidence through effective communication" related Yamuna.

Their partnership of 50+ hours has seen success as witnessed at the LVA-Somerset County Annual Meeting in June 2001 and described in an excerpt from the Courier News article below:

"When Aldona came to the United States from Lithuania two years ago, she had trouble communicating in English. But Monday night she stood up in front of a room full of people and was able to clearly vocalize her appreciation to Literacy Volunteers of Somerset County and her tutor. 'I would like to say thank you for giving me this opportunity to do a lot more in this land and improve my vocabulary,' she said. Aldona is a student at Raritan Valley Community college and her goal is to learn English well enough to return to her home country and teach people there according to her tutor."

Aldona's tutor goes on the say "One thing that amazes me about Aldona is her tenacity. She is the most hard working person I've ever known. She takes care of an elderly person with advanced Parkinson's disease at home, which is a 24 hour, round-the-clock responsibility, goes to Raritan Valley Community College for English lessons and reads whenever she has a couple of minutes to spare. She takes initiative on her own, checks out books from the library and reads in her spare time. Every Thursday we meet at the library and discuss the story and analyze the characters. I let her talk most of the time and I just ask questions and listen. She understands books and newspapers much more readily now, and essays for her schoolwork have improved. I also edit her essays and correct grammar and we discuss the mistakes and corrections.

I work full time and travel heavily. On several occasions I've felt like canceling because either I had too much pressure at work or had other things to catch up with. However, I think of Aldona and there I am, driving to Raritan Library where we meet every Thursday. After the meeting is over I drive back feeling pretty good about myself and feeling proud of Aldona, and I thank Aldona for making me feel that way."

"Michelle" moved into Agapé House in December, 2000 with her three children, two daughters and one son, ages 8, 6 and 3 respectively. At the time of her arrival, Samantha was 9 months pregnant with her fourth child. She and her family were living with an aunt in Somerville but could not continue to reside there due to overcrowded conditions.

"Michelle" had been employed as a billing clerk with a medical transportation company. The company was facing bankruptcy so "Michelle" made a decision to resign from her position during family leave. "Michelle" was eager to find more stable employment to support herself and her children.

After the birth of her child, a baby girl, "Michelle" began to search for employment and wanted to begin working soon after her daughter was 6 weeks old. After 2 months of searching for employment and attending Work First New Jersey, "Michelle" secured a position as a medical receptionist and began working in March of 2001.

During her 11-month stay at Agapé House, "Michelle" continued working full-time. She attended workshops on budgeting parenting and was assigned a case manager who assisted her in locating housing. "Michelle" was able to acquire a vehicle that was donated to Agapé House for a needy family. "Michelle" was also nominated for the Courier News Wish Book and received $1500 through United Way towards a new computer for her children. Her children were able to participate in various school activities and those offered at Agape House.

Three months after "Michelle" had begun working she was no longer eligible to receive Emergency Assistance, which funded her stay at Agapé House. "Michelle" had applied for Section 8 housing assistance through Somerville and was on the waiting list. Funding through United Way enabled Volunteers of America to provide housing for "Michelle" and her children while she searched for affordable housing.

In November, 2001, "Michelle" moved into a new apartment with her four children. The Somerset County Board of Social Services has provided "Michelle" with a housing subsidy in order to support her in paying rent. Without the Agapé House shelter, "Michelle" and her children would not have had a stable environment, which allowed them to continue working and attending school and ultimately reach self-sufficiency and independent living.

Volunteers of America Delaware Valley, which provides a wide variety of programs for persons experiencing homelessness, seeking and living in permanent housing, struggling with addictive behavior, possessing chronic mental illness or returning to society from the criminal justice system, established Agapé House in 1988.

Residents receive 24-hour staff support and supervision, as well as the benefit of educational workshops, housing, supplemental food, clothing, household items and personalized case management, a component of the program that sets Agapé House apart from other shelters that primarily provide housing and food.

Each family has a case manager who works with the family or individual to create an Individual Development Plan, a list of prioritized goals that enables the family or individual to work towards self-sufficiency and independent living. It is the agency's goal to help every family and individual increase their chances for success so that they can live a better life.

At a little over one year of age, Megan's parents were concerned that Megan had not yet begun learning to speak. In addition, Megan was difficult to control. She was hyperactive and exhibited other behavioral problems.

Concerned about her development, Megan's mother, Susan, sought help from The Arc of Somerset County, a Somerset County United Way-funded agency located in Manville. Both The Arc and Megan's pediatrician classified Megan as Globally Developmentally Delayed.

After she was enrolled in the early intervention program at the Jerry Davis Early Childhood Center, a program of The Arc of Somerset, life began to change for Megan and her family.

Therapists taught Megan's parents how to use sign language to communicate with her, which paved the way for rapid growth in all areas of Megan's development, in addition to easing inhibiting frustrations and fears Megan had of the outside world. A team of physical, occupational and speech therapists used Sensory Integration to help Megan process information, incorporating the use of all of the senses through physical activities, such as swinging on a swing or squeezing playdough.

As a result, Megan related to her family and teachers in a more positive manner. And, gradually, she began to speak.

Today Megan is a vibrant, intelligent and happy young girl, which her mother credits in great part to the individual caring, support and attention that Megan and her family received from The Arc. "There are so many things that Megan couldn't do just a few years ago that she can do now, and I attribute the majority of that to the services she received," said her mother.

"If Megan had never had early intervention through this United Way-funded program, my guess is that she would still be like she was a few years ago," says Donovan. "I really was afraid she was autistic. We probably would have gone that route and had her treated for a disease which she doesn't have, which is scary."

Susan relayed their experience with The Arc to the National Starch and Chemical employees who listened eagerly to Megan's success story. Those present had the opportunity to meet a talkative and exuberant Megan, who, as she told her audience, is now one of the top readers in her class. Now in public school, Megan not only does well academically, but is able to form enjoyable relationships with friends and teachers. In short, Megan is now a happy and normal youngster, curious, eager and ready to take on the world. And, Megan's mother is now a teacher at The Arc where she offers the same care and support to those in need as Megan received just a few years back.

National Starch and Chemical Company employees have shown their concern for the community by supporting United Way. This year's campaign began with a Walk-a-Thon with hundreds of employees raising money for the Somerset County United Way Community Care Fund by walking laps around their campus for the good of those in need.

"I am thrilled at the turnout and the enthusiasm shown by our employees," said Joanne Ranieri, senior manager of eBusiness and Technology Solutions, IT for National Starch and Chemical and United Way campaign chairperson. "National Starch and its employees continue, year after year, to show their spirit in support of the Somerset County United Way and its agencies. This year, after already holding many events, such as food and clothing drives and several Day of Caring projects, hundreds of employees joined the campaign kick-off Walkathon and rallies. I, myself, am honored to be the Chairperson this year and to have had the chance to work with so many great people!"

For more information about programs and services offered by The Arc of Somerset County, call (908) 725-8544.

You can make a difference in someone's life by supporting Somerset County United Way's Community Care Fund. To make a donation, visit United Way's website at www.somersetcountyunitedway.org or call them at (908) 725-6640.

An independent nonprofit organization that acts as a catalyst for positive change, Somerset County United Way supports health and human service providers by raising funds and effectively investing them, developing volunteer resources and building community collaboratives and partnerships. Somerset County United Way currently provides funding for 101 programs through 55 affiliated agencies. For information about local nonprofit agencies or for volunteer opportunities, visit www.SomersetOnline.org.

Somerset County United Way
205 West Main Street
Somerville, NJ 08876
(908) 725-6640

Close to 200 people of all ages participated in a special volunteer program hosted by Somerset County United Way at the Somerset County Vocational and Technical School in Bridgewater on Saturday, November 23.

Participants could choose from a variety of on-site volunteer projects designed for families in celebration of National Family Volunteer Day. Some of the volunteer projects included making holiday greeting cards, counting and sorting postage stamps, creating a mural, preparing a mailing and making Thanksgiving placemats for a special dinner being hosted by the Food Bank Network of Somerset County the following day.

“The event was a big success,” said Deanna Keller, senior manager of community initiatives for United Way. “We had a great turnout and a lot of work was accomplished that benefited several nonprofit groups in our area. But even more important was the message that this event sends to the young people who participated. Seeing others volunteering their time, including members of their own families, sends a very strong message to children about the importance of community and helping others.”

Nonprofit groups that hosted projects at the event included the Food Bank Network of Somerset County, Rock Brook School, the Somerset County Association of Young Professionals, the Elizabeth Snyder-Continental Chapter of the Daughters of the American Revolution and Somerset County United Way.

Rock Brook School asked volunteers to assist them with putting together a large mailing. “I was very pleased with all the people who turned out,” said Rick Sugam, president of Rock Brook’s Board of Trustees. “They did a great job, and their efforts really helped us out.” Located in Skillman, Rock Brook is a private nonprofit school for children with communication handicaps, language, speech or learning disabilities.

Volunteers also helped to sort and count more than 12,200 postage stamps collected by the Daughters of the American Revolution. These stamps will be distributed to veterans who are patients at V.A. medical centers across the country that use stamp collecting as part of their rehabilitation programs. In addition, volunteers made more than 150 holiday greeting cards for the patients at Lyons V.A. Hospital. Many of the cards also contained words of thanks to the veterans.

The event was free, but families were asked to bring a nonperishable food item to donate to the Food Bank. To make the day even more fun for the children, there were raffles, prizes and refreshments. Businesses that donated goods or services include Doubletree Hotel in Somerset, Dunkin’ Donuts on Rt. 22 in Somerville, Nike, Somerset County Vocational-Technical Shool, Somerset Patriots and Wegmans.

“We wanted to make the experience fun for the entire family,” said Keller. “It was a day that families could spend together, working to help others. Participants had the opportunity to meet other families that like to volunteer. And, people learned more about the important role of volunteers in Somerset County, and about current volunteer opportunities in our area.

“We’d also like people to know that Somerset County United Way can help them find family volunteer opportunities in our area any time of year through our Volunteer Center,” said Keller. To contact United Way’s Volunteer Center, call (908) 253-6506 or visit www.SomersetOnline.org.

An independent nonprofit organization that acts as a catalyst for positive change, Somerset County United Way supports health and human services providers by raising funds and effectively investing them, developing volunteer resources and building community collaboratives and partnerships Your donations to the Community Care Fund make it possible for Somerset County United Way to fund 101 critical health and human services programs through 55 affiliated agencies. Funding decisions are made by trained volunteers who represent the community. More than 88 cents of every dollar donated supports programs that provide food and shelter, quality child and elder care, emergency services, youth development, healthcare services and more. For more information, visit www.somersetcountyunitedway.org.

The end of the year is a busy time for everyone. With the holidays approaching and projects to wrap up before year-end, most of us have a great deal on our plates.

But, that didn't stop more than 150 Aventis associates from helping out local nonprofit organizations by lending their hands to a variety of volunteer initiatives through Somerset County United Way's Day of Caring project.

Day of Caring offers employee groups and service organizations the chance to help a local nonprofit agency by providing hands-on assistance with a project.

"One of the ways that we can demonstrate that company values at Aventis reach beyond our corporate boundaries is through the action of our volunteers," said Chip Rouse, vice president of North America Communications and Corporate Relations for Aventis. "To date in 2002, we have more than 750 associates who have volunteered over 3,500 hours in the community."

The eager volunteers signed up for projects throughout the area. Their list of activities included landscaping and clean-up for The Resource Center for Women and Their Families, Anderson House, Catholic Charities and Family and Community Services. A number of the Aventis volunteers spent their time packing and delivering meals to those in need for the American Red Cross - Central New Jersey Chapter, while others sorted eyeglasses for New Eyes for the Needy.

The volunteers performed administrative tasks, visited with senior citizens and performed general office work. Some utilized their artistic talents by painting hallways and a gym for the Somerset Valley YMCA, a mural for Alternatives, Inc. and a garage for the American Red Cross - Greater Somerset County Chapter.

Aventis associates could be found throughout the county doing work for agencies in South Bound Brook, Somerville, Hillsborough, Bridgewater, Peapack and Belle Mead as well as other locations.

"Having the chance to reach out to the community through a variety of volunteer projects is so valuable to Aventis associates," said Amy Dupuis, corporate relations representative for Aventis. "Not only do we have an opportunity to make a difference for people in need but, we also gain a better understanding of the issues our friends and neighbors are facing, which is all the more incentive for us to work towards making a positive difference."

Thanks to the hard work of the Aventis volunteers, the agencies are better able to serve the community. Not only did they provide a multitude of valuable services for local agencies and the people they serve, but the volunteers also sent a message that they care about the community and those in need. And by availing themselves of generously donated services, agencies are able to devote their financial resources to valuable programs rather than purchasing those services.

"Without the volunteers for Day of Caring projects we would not be able to afford to upgrade and upkeep our facilities," said Maury Lonergan, facilities manager for the Resource Center for Women and Their Families. "The Aventis group donated more than I originally requested in addition to the painting supplies. They saved us so much time and money that we can put directly towards are clients."

"Aventis is a strong supporter of community involvement through volunteering, donations and gifts-in-kind." said Dupuis. "We are happy to have the United Way Volunteer Center to connect us with agencies and people that we can help."

Aventis associates will be donating holiday gifts to those in need through The Salvation Army, The Angel Connection and Somerset County United Way's Gifts of the Season program. Members of their staffs also serve on the Somerset County Association of Young Professionals, a volunteer group that combines professional and philanthropic values to form an outlet for young professionals to reach out to those in need while supporting one another in their efforts to become exceptional community and business leaders.

Aventis is dedicated to improving life by treating and preventing human disease through the discovery and development of innovative pharmaceutical products. Aventis focuses on prescription drugs for important therapeutic areas such as oncology, cardiology, diabetes and respiratory disorders as well as on human vaccines.

The Somerset County United Way Volunteer Center has information on current one-time and ongoing volunteer opportunities in our area for groups and individuals of all ages. To find out more, you can contact the Volunteer Center at (908) 253-6506 or visit Somerset Online at www.SomersetOnline.org. To learn more about United Way, visit their website at www.somersetcountyunitedway.org or call them at (908) 725-6640.

An independent nonprofit organization that acts as a catalyst for positive change, Somerset County United Way supports health and human service providers by raising funds and effectively investing them, developing volunteer resources and building community collaboratives and partnerships. Somerset County United Way currently provides funding for 101 programs through 55 affiliated agencies.

SOMERSET COUNTY, N.J. -- The Somerset County Cultural Diversity Coalition (SCCDC) will be presenting awards to eight outstanding individuals and organizations who have promoted diversity in Somerset County. The awards will be presented at an Interfaith Thanksgiving Dinner on Thursday, November 21, 6:30 p.m. at Raritan Valley Community College in the grand conference room of the Technology Center, Route 28 in North Branch. Members of the public are invited to attend.

“The mission of our group is to promote understanding of one another,” said Dr. Tulsi Maharjan, co-chairman of the SCCDC. “And it seems appropriate that we recognize people and groups that value and promote diversity as we celebrate Thanksgiving. We invite people of all faiths and cultural backgrounds to come and celebrate with us.”

At the event, both former Franklin School Superintendent Frank Pepe and Richard Trottman, dean of college advancement at Raritan Valley Community College, will be recognized in the field of education. Pepe instituted diversity training workshops and worked to increase the number of minority employees among his staff. In his former position of affirmative action officer, Trottman helped to ensure diversity among the students enrolled at Raritan Valley Community College.

Assemblyman Peter Biondi of Hillsborough and Assistant Somerset County Prosecutor Kathleen Holly are being honored in the Government category. Biondi helped to secure a state grant to create diversity programs in local schools, while Holly acts as a legal advisor to the prosecutor’s office on bias and hate crimes.

Rev. Brooks Smith, pastor of the Watchung Avenue Presbyterian Church in North Plainfield, is being honored for his community leadership. Rev. Smith helped to form Friends of the Carpenter, a group that builds and rennovates low- and moderate-income housing.

The Franklin Township Youth Services Commission and the Somerset County Youth Council are being recognized for their efforts in promoting diversity awareness among county youth. The commission sponsored a forum and several youth events promoting diversity, while the youth council holds teen dialogues to promote discussion and increased understanding among young people.

Also, the Courier News will be honored in the business category for its coverage of issues and events around diversity.

“We invite everyone to share a meal and celebrate the blessings of diversity,” said Maharjan. “Prayers will be offered by local representatives of the Baha’i, Buddhist, Christian, Hindu, Jewish, Muslim and Sikh communities.”

If you would like to attend the dinner and award presentations, you are asked to register in advance at www.SomersetOnline.org. A donation of $10 is requested, with proceeds benefiting the Somerset County Cultural Diversity Coalition and three local food banks. The event is being hosted by the SCCDC, Raritan Valley Community College, Somerset County United Way and Wegmans Food Markets.

The Somerset County Cultural Diversity Coalition promotes respect for all people in our community through sponsorship of community events and publications and is a Somerset County United Way-affiliated agency. For more information about the Coalition, call (908) 927-0618.

Somerset County, N.J. - The Special Gifts Letter Writers Committee of Somerset County United Way began their fund-raising campaign at the Far Hills home of Mrs. George J. Richards on an early fall afternoon. The campaign is one steeped in the tradition of caring for those less fortunate that utilizes one of our most classic forms of communication, writing letters.

Since the early 1960s, members of the Special Gifts Letter Writers campaign, most of whom are residents of the Somerset Hills area, have been writing personalized requests to their friends, neighbors and acquaintances for donations to aid those in need.

Having been raised in a family that stressed the value of helping others improve their quality of life, it’s not surprising that Mrs. Richards has been chairing the campaign for more than 20 years.

“Our network of Somerset Hills fund-raisers who write notes to special givers has proven to be very worthwhile over the years,” said Mrs. Richards. “Somerset County United Way is a leader in community problem solving and continues to be very effective in helping the community. I’m happy to be involved these many years.”

Mrs. Richards, along with a number of Letter Writers, both past and present, began their partnership with United Way when they devoted their time to the Somerset Hills Community Chest. The Community Chest had its beginnings in the Bernards Township War Fund, an organization that evolved into the United Campaign of Somerset Hills in the late 1940s, and then into the Somerset Hills Community Chest. In 1990, the Somerset Hills Community Chest merged with United Way of Somerset Valley, the Warren Township Committee Fund and the Watchung Borough Community Chest to form Somerset County United Way.

Allen Reese, president of Somerset County United Way (SCUW) and May Hill, senior director of Operations for United Way, were both on-hand at the campaign kick-off to visit with the volunteers and provide any needed information.

“I’ve worked with some of these wonderful volunteers for more than 20 years,” said Mrs. Hill who began working with the Community Chest in 1980 and then stayed on with SCUW after the agencies merged. “Not only do they bring their generosity and compassion to the campaign, but also a history and sense of community involvement.”

Mrs. Prentice Talmage, Jr., of Pottersville, was present to pick up her materials and spend time with the other volunteers, some of whom were new to the group. A dedicated fund-raiser, Mrs. Talmage served on the board and was president of the Community Chest in the 1970s. She has been a Letter Writer for many years.

“I can’t believe all these years have given me so much pleasure and satisfaction, knowing that Somerset County United Way is still doing a superb job,” said Mrs. Talmage.

“I would like to thank all our Special Gifts Letter Writers for all their time and support,” added Mrs. Hill. “Every year they continue to increase giving for our community. It is my pleasure to work with such a dedicated group of volunteers. They’ve led the way in caring for a long time.”

The Somerset County United Way Community Care Fund addresses our community’s most critical needs in child care and development, substance abuse prevention and recovery, health-related services, care for people with disabilities, job training, crisis services and basic needs such as food and shelter. Volunteers from the community direct this money to fund local services that produce positive, measurable results.

You can make a difference in someone’s life by supporting Somerset County United Way’s Community Care Fund. To make a donation, visit United Way’s website at www.somersetcountyunitedway.org or call them at (908) 725-6640.

An independent nonprofit organization that acts as a catalyst for positive change, Somerset County United Way supports health and human service providers by raising funds and effectively investing them, developing volunteer resources and building community collaboratives and partnerships. Somerset County United Way currently provides funding for 101 programs through 55 affiliated agencies. For information about local nonprofit agencies or for volunteer opportunities, visit www.SomersetOnline.org.

This is the fifth year that SJP Properties has made a charitable donation based on the company’s original contract to purchase land from Ethicon’s parent company, Johnson & Johnson, to create the Somerset Corporate Center in Bridgewater. At the time, both parties agreed that philanthropy should be part of the site’s development. SJP Properties and Johnson & Johnson have chosen local charities to receive contributions, with the amount based on how much of the property has been developed. This year’s gift was presented to Somerset County United Way, who in turn made the check presentation to the charities.

“It is my pleasure to recognize these agencies in a special way,” said Steven J. Pozycki, president of SJP Properties. “Somerset County United Way, along with Johnson & Johnson, have made it possible for us to help in making a difference.”

Donald Bowers of Ethicon, a Johnson & Johnson Company in Bridgewater and the J&J contact for the SJP Charitable Contributions effort, said, “We continue to be pleased with this charitable giving initiative that now benefits six important Somerset County nonprofits. J&J applauds SJP Properties and its CEO, Steve Pozycki, for this significant philanthropic program. This year we celebrate a milestone as the total grants over five years have reached approximately $250,000. We look forward to continuing this wonderful initiative.”

The checks were presented at Matheny School and Hospital, a facility that offers health care services for people of all ages with developmental disabilities and operates an approved private school for children with multiple disabilities.

“Matheny is very grateful for the continued support of Steve Pozycki of SJP Properties and Donald Bowers of Johnson & Johnson,” said Steve Proctor, Matheny president. “We are in the process of expanding our medical and dental services to disabled individuals from the community in this part of the state. These funds will be very important in our efforts to provide medical and dental services to this underserved population.”

Nichola Redmond, executive director of the Somerset Hills Handicapped Riding Center, said, “The Riding Center is pleased and honored to accept the donation from SJP Properties. This gift will have a significant impact on our program and our program has a significant impact on the lives of our riders.” The Somerset Hills Handicapped Riding Center provides adaptive horseback riding lessons and equine-assisted occupational, physical and speech therapy to children and adults with disabilities.

“Our mission is to graduate our students, children with autism, to traditional educational and workplace settings,” said Dr. Kevin J. Brothers, executive director of the Somerset Hills Learning Institute in Gladstone. “ Achieving those outcomes requires the generosity of many people and foundations. We are very grateful to SJP for investing in our children’s futures and giving them a chance at life.”

Another check recipient was The Arc of Somerset County. This agency, headquartered in Manville, provides advocacy and services for persons with developmental disabilities. “We are very grateful to Steve Pozycki and SJP Properties for again including The Arc of Somerset County as one of their grant recipients,” said Louis Baldino, executive director of the Arc. “Many, many children and adults with disabilities served by The Arc have benefitted from their tremendous generosity”.

The Midland School in North Branch is a private rehabilitation center serving the special education needs of children ages five to 21 with cognitive, behavioral and communication disorders. “Midland is fortunate to have Steve Pozycki as a friend,” said Philip Gartlan, executive director of the school. “Without the generous help of people like Steve, Midland could not provide the services and programs that are so important to our students and adults with disabilities.”

A sixth check was presented to United Way’s Somerset County Families Relief Fund to benefit county residents affected by the events of September 11, 2001. To date, a total of $236,987 has been disbursed through this fund to provide financial aid to families that lost a loved one and to fund local counseling and support groups, legal aid, and to provide assistance for displaced workers. Money has also been disbursed to local emergency response teams in the county.

“Somerset County United Way is proud to play a role in bringing people together to help one another,” said Allen Reese, president of United Way. “We are grateful to SJP Properties and Johnson & Johnson for the donation to the Somerset County Families Relief Fund. And we thank them for working through us to make these funds available to support programs that strengthen our community.”

An independent nonprofit organization that acts as a catalyst for positive change, Somerset County United Way currently funds 101 programs through 55 affiliated health and human service agencies that improve the quality of life for people who live and work in Somerset County. Funding decisions are made by trained volunteers who represent the community. More than 88 cents of every dollar donated supports programs that provide food and shelter, quality child and elder care, emergency services, youth development, healthcare services and more. For more information about how you or your business can support United Way’s efforts, contact them at (908) 725-6640 or visit their website at www.somersetcountyunitedway.org.

Household International, Inc
200 Somerset Corp Blvd.
Bridgewater, NJ 08807
(908) 203-2100

Somerset County, N.J. - It began with the mock arrest of Household International’s executive staff in their Bridgewater office and resulted in more than double the amount of money they’d hoped to raise for the community.

Household International’s special event fund-raiser for Somerset County United Way must have felt like a dream come true for some employees who had the chance to “lock up” their bosses, along with the help of Sergeant Gerald Nunnery from the Bridgewater Police Department.

Once arrested and wearing black and white striped prison garb, complete with ball and chain, the “prisoners” made several phone calls (yes, they were allowed more than one!). In order to be released, they had to raise “bail” money from their families, friends and associates. The money raised actually went to the Somerset County United Way Community Care Fund.

“I’ve attended fund-raising events like this before but I’ve never seen such enthusiasm,” said Sergeant Nunnery. “You could see that everyone was personally invested in raising money for the community. The company did a great job of making it a fun day.” The event, which also included a bake sale and the chance to win gift baskets, raised more than $10,000, which is in addition to Household’s annual employee campaign.

“When we started planning for this year’s campaign we really wanted to keep it simple with the focus on making it meaningful,” said Kirk Bryans, group director in Sales for Insurance Services at Household. “We wanted everyone to understand how their donations were being put to good use.”

“We relied on the fabric of the employees,” said Tom Spears, director in Technology for Insurance Services at Household. “We told them about the benefits of their generosity and it’s impact. We knew they would do the right thing.”

As Bryans and Spears predicted, the staff members came through when the campaign’s participation rate increased from 40% last year to more than 80% for this year.

Prior the start of their campaign, several senior managers and executives toured local agencies that are funded by Somerset County United Way. When they returned they shared stories with their fellow staff members about the people they’d met and the valuable health and human service programs that they’d had the chance to witness firsthand.

But, one of the most moving stories came from Spears, whose daughter, Christine, has Down syndrome. “I told everyone about the day Christine was born, how my wife and I felt and about the help we received,” said Spears. “I know how important that help has been to us and I just want to make sure we can help others get that same support. It really made a difference for us.”

Spears, along with other staff members, toured the Jerry Davis Early Childhood Center at The Arc of Somerset County, a Somerset County United Way-affiliated agency. Impressed with the agency, he noted their use of advanced and beneficial methods with their young care recipients, the value of which he can appreciate.

Key to the campaign’s success was the sense of compassion and generosity that the employees brought to the project. “We were just so impressed by how much thought and creativity Household invested in their fund-raising event,” said Pat Piazza, senior director of Resource Development for Somerset County United Way. “Their concern for those in need is so genuine and they have such great energy and kindness. Working with people like the folks at Household and seeing how much heart they bring to their campaign for the good of others is just so inspiring. It’s why I love what I do.”

“Caring about people and the community is part of our company’s culture,” said Bryans. “The success of the campaign has so much to do with the great people who work here. They just really want to help.”

Household’s businesses provide insurance and protection products in the United States, United Kingdom and Canada. Committed to improving the quality of life in the communities in which their employees live and work, Household has partnered with United Way for more than 28 years.

You can make a difference in someone’s life by supporting Somerset County United Way’s Community Care Fund. To make a donation, visit United Way’s website at www.somersetonline.org or call them at (908) 725-6640.

An independent nonprofit organization that acts as a catalyst for positive change, Somerset County United Way supports health and human services providers by raising funds and effectively investing them, developing volunteer resources and building community collaboratives and partnerships. Donations to the Community Care Fund make it possible for Somerset County United Way to fund 94 critical health and human services programs through 55 affiliated agencies. Funding decisions are made by trained volunteers who represent the community. More than 88 cents of every dollar donated supports programs that provide food and shelter, quality child and elder care, emergency services, youth development, healthcare services and more.

Somerset County, N.J. – Volunteers from Prudential Financial found that volunteering is rewarding in more ways than one when they took on a project organized through Somerset County United Way’s Volunteer Center. Working outside on a warm sunny day to improve the trails for the Somerset County Park Commission gave a group of Prudential employees a chance to help the community. At the same time, the volunteers had a chance to learn more about each other and do some team building.

“Prudential Financial has provided its employees with a ‘Personal Volunteer Day’ for the last three years to allow us to work on community service projects and give back to the community,” said Tom DiClemente, Prudential’s vice president of Internal Audit. The group has worked together on other projects in the past including improving and preparing a summer camp for low-income children.

“Our Internal Audit group has used Prudential’s volunteer program to work together as a team to help nonprofit organizations. We look forward to socializing with each other outside of the office while helping the community. The volunteer day has allowed us to become a stronger team but more importantly help a good cause.”

“The group of volunteers from Prudential repaired waterbars and trails at Washington Valley Park,” said Scott Brallier, a park ranger with the Somerset County Park Commission. “They did a great job and were not afraid to get their hands dirty. Volunteers are very important to the Somerset County Park Commission as they provide additional man power, enthusiasm and smiles to accomplish various tasks.”

Since its founding in 1875, Prudential employees have been committed to making a difference in the communities where they live and work, through both volunteer work and corporate donations.
The company sponsors diverse community- and team-building initiatives for its employees that include serving on nonprofit boards, chairing grant-making committees, volunteering to address needs in specific communities and matching employee donations to charities, including Somerset County United Way (SCUW).

“The Volunteer Center at Somerset County United Way has seen a dramatic increase in corporate volunteerism since the tragic events of September 11,” said Paul Dudek, manager of volunteer services at SCUW. “In the past, we have created large, annual projects for corporate involvement. This last year, corporations have been coming to the Volunteer Center to arrange a number of projects throughout the year. They find the projects rewarding for the community and also enjoy the chance to work together as a team to make a difference for those in need.

“We’ve also seen more top executives rolling up their sleeves and and joining in the efforts to help others. It’s a pleasure to work with companies like Prudential that clearly care about the communities that it’s employees live in and strongly supports those who choose to volunteer. ”

Volunteers are always needed to assist local nonprofit agencies in serving the community. Some of the current opportunities include helping with clerical tasks, landscaping or building maintenance tasks, mentoring children, grocery shopping for a senior, or serving on a committee or a board of trustees. Opportunities are available through the Somerset County United Way Volunteer Center for groups and individuals, young and old. For more information about how you can volunteer, please contact the Volunteer Center at (908) 253-6506 or e-mail us at info@uwscty.org. For information on current volunteer opportunities in nonprofit agencies and services in Somerset County, visit Somerset Online at www.somersetonline.org.

An independent nonprofit organization that acts as a catalyst for positive change, Somerset County United Way supports health and human service providers by raising funds and effectively investing them, developing volunteer resources and building community collaboratives and partnerships. Somerset County United Way currently provides funding for 101 programs through 55 affiliated agencies.

AT&T continues its tradition of support of worthwhile causes, wrapping up a six-week United Way pledge campaign for its Community Giving Program (Sept. 16 to Nov. 1.). A longtime United Way supporter, the telecommunications giant has implemented sophisticated new online tools and other expanded giving options that have broadened the scope and impact of its annual campaign.

"We had a tremendously successful campaign in 2001," explained Ken Sichau, president of AT&T Business Sales and chairman of the 2002 Leadership campaign. "But despite our past successes, we're committed to helping AT&T do more."

Sichau addressed a gathering of AT&T leadership in September that kicked off this year's pledge drive. The breakfast was hosted by Betsy Bernard, President, AT&T Consumer (soon-to-be-AT&T President) and included such luminaries as AT&T president (soon-to-be CEO) Dave Dorman and Brian Gallagher, president and CEO of United Way of America. Over 100 AT&T business leaders heard words of encouragement, motivation and information aimed at generating a chain reaction of giving on the part of AT&T's employees.

"AT&T has a formidable legacy of living the right values, including our proud history of community support. It's a legacy that continues with this campaign. We are reaffirming our commitment to this effort by investing in the tools that will improve the charitable giving process," said Sichau.
One significant improvement this year, is the implementation of a Web site that allows employees to help manage their personal giving quickly and more easily.

"This powerful online tool will allow pledged donations to be deducted from employee paychecks, as pay-period or one time contributions," explained Sarah Brelvi, AT&T's Community Giving program director. "The automated process eliminates the need to write checks, mail donations or collect receipts. It's all done for our employees. As an added incentive to give, we've expanded our process to accept donations to organizations that were traditionally outside the scope of AT&T's campaign, such as universities, fire departments, rescue services and more. These improvements allow employees to create a year-round giving plan that supports the United Way and other non-profit agencies."

The enthusiasm generated by the pledge campaign, along with the user-friendly Web site, is expected to drive strong contribution levels for AT&T.

"The pledge drive ends in November, but the giving - and the need for giving - goes on throughout the year," Brelvi said. "We think of this program as a way of helping employees to help our communities - a proud AT&T tradition that continues because of our people's concern and generosity."

Somerset County, N.J. - People like Walther Ott have a profound impact on the health and well-being of the community. As a Somerset County United Way Leadership Giver, Mr. Ott has been helping the community for years through his generosity and concern for others.

Forty years ago, Walther's wife brought him a wilting African Violet and requested that he "make it bloom." Walther went further than that. Not only did the violet bloom, but it also began a passion for Walther that he is still perfecting to this day. Through trial and error, Walther, a scientist and farmer, found the best light, soil and conditions that would make his African Violets thrive. He developed a special pot that would enable even the most inept gardener to keep their violets healthy and flourishing.

This was hardly the first time had invested his all into making anything bloom. Now a resident at Arbor Glen, a retirement community in Bridgewater, Walther was raised on a farm in Oregon where his capacity for finding the best ways to raise healthy and thriving livestock earned him a long-lived career as a senior scientist with the research laboratories of Merck & Co. Inc.

During his tenure with Merck, Ott helped develop beneficial medicines and vitamins for animals to ensure their optimum health. His work aided in the treatment of various forms of disease and parasites in animals, resulting in the decrease of morbidity rates. He was also involved in the development of a number of antibiotics and the patenting process for vitamin B12.

A variety of African Violets now thrive in his home, a constant and comforting memory of his wife Maxine who passed away a few years back and, testimony to Mr. Ott's ability to make things flourish. It's this ability that he brings to a number of worthwhile causes, including our own community.

Mr. Ott has given to his local United Way for years in the Leadership Giver capacity. Leadership Givers are those who make an annual contribution of $1,500 or more to United Way. He is currently a member of the Alexis de Tocqueville Society, whose members donate more than $10,000 annually to United Way to support crucial health and human service programs for those in need. Mr. Ott's gift is matched dollar-for-dollar through the Merck Retiree Giving Program.

"It's important to give back when so much has been given to me throughout my life," said Ott. "I've had so many advantages and have had a good life. It's hard to give to every cause you care about so we've given major gifts to United Way because they care for a lot of agencies. Maxine and I always made sure we scraped enough together to ensure that Merck made the highest match possible."

Active in their church, Walther and Maxine were caring volunteers for years. As a pastoral assistant, it was Walther's responsibility to visit fellow parishioners who were unable to attend church because they were ill, homebound or otherwise incapacitated. Walther's visits brought companionship to his friends and neighbors and helped them maintain their connection to their church community. And, of course, Walther brought African Violets to many of the people he visited, returning often to check on his friends and make sure their violets were still blooming and bringing them joy. Walther also donated his time to working on the church grounds and landscaping. He helped to design a memorial garden and to cultivate the church's flowers and foliage for the enjoyment of the parishioners.

In order to help others achieve, Walther and his wife established endowments and scholarship funds and made donations to several educational organizations including Oregon State University, where they both earned undergraduate degrees and Walther earned an M.S. in animal nutrition, and Pennsylvania State University, where Walther earned his Ph.D in agricultural and biological chemistry.

"Maxine and I both made a point of meeting new people and knowing their names," stated Walther. "Every African Violet has its own distinctive name. It's just as important to know the name of each person you meet."

It is this value for every life that has made Walther Ott such a caring and giving person who strives to bring joy, health and happiness to all he can. His selfless contributions to the community through Somerset County United Way, his church and other organizations have helped countless people achieve a better quality of life.

Please consider becoming a United Way Leadership Giver. It is your generosity, leadership and commitment to our community that will provide a shining example for others to follow. Your gifts to United Way can help to strengthen our community's network of health and human services organizations as they look after our friends, neighbors and loved ones and provide them with the crucial quality care they so deserve.

Best Buy, North America's leading specialty retailers of digital technology and entertainment products, celebrated their grand opening in Bridgewater on August 23 with the presentation of a check for $10,000 to Somerset County United Way.

Dedicated to being a true good neighbor, Best Buy works with a number of nonprofit organizations that can link Best Buy support and resources to communities where Best Buy stores are located. Children and families in Bridgewater are now eligible to be involved in a number of Best Buy/nonprofit relationships, including those with United Way, Junior Achievement and Toys for Tots. Go to http://communications.bestbuy.com/communityrelations/default.asp for more information.

The $10,000 provided to Somerset County United Way will help them to create and build the resources necessary to improve the quality of life for people who live in Somerset County. United Way supports health and human service providers by raising funds and effectively investing them, developing volunteer resources and building community collaboratives and partnerships.

The list of community service projects in which staff members from Phillips-Van Heusen have gotten involved is a long one and includes helping earthquake victims, working with the New Jersey Special Olympics, participating in the United Way campaign, mowing lawns for the sick and the elderly and helping the American Red Cross serve meals to rescue workers at Ground Zero. This week, they added to their list by, once again, taking part in Somerset County United Way's Day of Caring.

Somerset County United Way's Day of Caring project is an annual one-day event that brings together community members who wish to volunteer their skills to benefit local nonprofit agencies as well as the community and those in need. This year, hundreds of employees from local companies devoted their time to a variety of opportunities that included spending time with senior citizens, assisting in classrooms, landscaping, painting, gardening, running food drives and reading to children.

By volunteering their time to the Reeves-Reed Arboretum and the Somerset County 4-H, the Phillips-Van Heusen employees helped these agencies as well as the community by providing valuable services that the agencies might not normally be able to afford.

"Our annual fair has just ended and there are many kids now interested in joining the Somerset County 4-H," said Lucille Razzano, Somerset County 4-H program coordinator. "We have more work to do than ever and we need to catch up. The work done by the Phillips-Van Heusen volunteers has been such a great help and we are very grateful for their hard work."

Planting mums and more than 150 bulbs, weeding, doing fall clean-up and straightening up the amphitheater for the 4-H were some of tasks performed by the volunteers. At the Reeves-Reed Arboretum, a suburban conservancy dedicated to the environment, horticultural education and the enjoyment of nature, volunteers offered their help to clear trails, garden and do general clean-up.

"It was great to be outside, close to Mother Nature working with flowers, with our hands in the dirt," said Barbara Holzapfel, a Phillips-Van Heusen staff member who spent the day at the 4-H. "It was a lot of fun working together with the other volunteers to beautify the agency's grounds. We had some laughs and really enjoyed the day."

Barbara and fellow volunteers, Kelly Landerway, Celeste Doherty and Debra Winkle, had the chance to relax and unwind after a long day's work thanks to Wegmans Food Market in Bridgewater, which provided much needed respite and food throughout the day for them as well as the hundreds of other Day of Caring volunteers from local companies who were working with agencies throughout the area.

Phillips-Van Heusen was also a sponsor of this year's Day of Caring along with Bristol-Myers Squibb. In addition to community service, employees from Phillips-Van Heusen and the company itself make several donations throughout the year of clothing, holiday gifts, food and computers as well as thousands of dollars in funding to help those in need.

"I have been working with Phillips-Van Heusen for years and am always so impressed with their commitment to so many wonderful programs and organizations," said Pat Piazza, senior director of Resource Development for Somerset County United Way. "They take great responsibility for making a positive difference for others and they are truly a valuable and caring group of people."

Volunteers are always needed for a variety of projects with opportunities available for individuals or groups. For more information about how you can get involved, please contact the Somerset County United Way Volunteer Center at (908) 253-6506 or email them at volunteercenter@uwscty.org.

Somerset County, N.J. - Employees from Bristol-Myers Squibb got an early start on their Day of Caring projects. Dozens of employees, including Donald Hayden, executive vice president of Bristol-Myers Squibb and president of North American Medicines, joined in to help strengthen local agencies that benefit the community.

In addition to encouraging their employees to volunteer their time for Day of Caring, Bristol-Myers Squibb is also a co-sponsor of the event with Phillips-Van Heusen Corporation and Wegmans. "The commitment to helping those most in need, as shown by Bristol-Myers Squibb, is just great," said Allen Reese, president of Somerset County United Way. "Their concern for the good of the community is evident in Don Hayden and his willingness to roll up his shirtsleeves and jump into volunteer work. We are truly fortunate to have Mr. Hayden and the Bristol-Myers Squibb family in our community."

Employees from ConvaTech, a Bristol-Myers Squibb company, recently spent time with residents at Arbor Glen, a retirement community in Bridgewater, where they did arts and crafts and visited the seniors. Employees from Bristol-Myers devoted their time to Mercer Street Friends, a nonprofit agency that addresses the needs of community members at every stage of life through a variety of programs.

The volunteers broke up into two groups, one of which had the opportunity to fingerpaint, and play with youngsters at the daycare center after touring the job training and youth counseling programs. Susan Williams, director of Children's Services, applauded the volunteers' enthusiasm. "They all took time to talk with the children, listen to a song and help color a puppet," Ms. Williams said. "And they didn't blink an eye when we brought out the finger paints!"

The other volunteers spent their time at the Adult Day program where they helped with Bingo games, socialized and did arts and crafts with the program's care recipients. "Their visit really brightened up the day for our clients," said Jill Mueller, director of Health and Senior Services. "Such kindness and enthusiasm means a lot to these seniors, who may not have friends and family nearby."

"We're just so impressed by the employees of Bristol-Myers Squibb," said Paul Dudek, manager of volunteer services at Somerset County United Way. "They are clearly devoted to making a difference in the community by reaching out to those in need. They've already signed up for many of our other upcoming projects including our holiday gift drive, Gifts of the Season, and they plan to continue their wonderful work with Mercer Street Friends. It's so nice to see such dedication and compassion for others and our Volunteer Center is very happy to work with them."

Bristol-Myers Squibb, a pharmaceutical and related health care products company, is dedicated to extending and enhancing human life by making a positive social and environmental difference both locally and globally. The company recognizes its social responsibility and is committed to acting as a responsible corporate citizen.

"We are impressed. The Bristol-Myers Squibb folks didn't just look around - they want to help," said Stephen Kitts, executive director of Mercer Street Friends. "They care about what we do and the families we help."

Day of Caring will be held on September 17 and is also the kick-off of United Way's 2002-03 Campaign. In partnership with Wegmans Food Market in Bridgewater, Somerset County United Way will be hosting a day-long event for all to attend. A rally will be held from noon to 2 p.m. and Wegmans will be providing free breakfast and lunch for volunteers.

Donald Bowers, Chair of the United Way's volunteer Board of Directors, stated that, "the funds were a small token made by the citizens of Somerset County through their United Way to recognize the courageous work undertaken by fire and rescue squad volunteers every day." Bowers went on to thank the volunteers for the work they do every day of the year, noting that they add considerably to the quality of life in Somerset County.

Russell Potter, a member of the Warren Township Rescue Squad, expressed his gratitude for the donation stating that, "local fire and rescue squads have experienced a 20-30% drop in dollars raised over the last year due to the '9/11 effect'." As the nation poured out its generosity to those affected by the terrorist attacks, many charities suffered in their fund raising efforts as individuals' total amount of discretionary dollars for charitable giving was depleted. Contributing to the decline of funding for the rescue squads has been the stock market reductions affecting any investments the organizations made.

"It's been tough," Mr. Potter stated, "we've had to make cuts in spending. We have a rig that's not in very good shape, but we can't afford to replace it." Mr. Potter was pleased to be recognized by the United Way and receive additional funds.

In addition to declining financial resources, many of the fire and rescue squads need more volunteers. They are shorthanded, causing current volunteers to work extra long hours to cover the shifts. If you are interested in becoming a volunteer or donating to the fire and rescue squads, please contact the webmaster to obtain contact information for your local area.

Each year, Somerset County United Way collects donations of new school supplies and clothing through their Over The Rainbow program to help elementary and middle school children of low-income families.

“We are still in the process of sorting the donated items to ready them for distribution later this week,” said Paul Dudek, manager of United Way’s Volunteer Center. “We estimate that we collected more than 22,100 items this year, that’s almost double last year’s total. And, several groups will be delivering even more items next week.”

These items will be distributed to more than 3,440 students who are eligible for free or reduced lunches at 39 participating schools throughout Somerset County. The number of students that will benefit from this program is up almost 10 percent from last year. “We are grateful that our generous donors have made it possible for us to help more children in need this year,” Dudek said. Among the new items donated are backpacks, paper, pens, pencils, crayons, notebooks, glue sticks, socks, underwear and personal hygiene items such as toothbrushes and band aids.

“United Way would very much like to thank our co-sponsors for this event, Target in Bridgewater and Barker Bus,” said Dudek. “We’d also like to thank United Reformed Church in Somerville. And, of course we want to thank the many people who donated to this program, employee groups, faith-based organizations, corporations and individuals who all reached out to help children in our area.”

More than 70 companies and organizations participated by donating items, including: Accenture; ADP/OMR; AT&T; AT&T Pioneers; Aventis; Barker Bus; BEA Systems; Bernardsville Senior Center; Bristol-Myers Squibb; Brother International; Castrol North American; Century 21 Worden & Green; Chubb & Son; Coldwell Banker; Convatec; Corrugated Paper Group; Doublette Hotel; Dow Chemical; Ethicon, Inc.; Everest Reinsurance, FedEx; Fleet; G&W Laboratories, Inc.; Hillsborough Presbyterian Church; ImClone Systems; Intersil Corporation; John Wiley & Sons; Johnson & Johnson Health Care Products, Consumer Products and Networking Computer Systems; Kingston Presbyterian Church; KPMG; Larson Financial; Levine Fricke; Liberty Mutual; Mary E. Wilson Memorial Church; Merck; MetLife; Millington Savings Bank; Moms Club of Hillsborough/Montgomery; Moms Club of Warren; National Council of Jewish Women; National Starch & Chemical Company/ICI Group; Neshanic Reformed Church; New England Financial; N.J. Eastern Star Home; Ortho Biotech LLC; Ortho-Clinical Diagnostics; Ortho McNeil; Peapack Gladstone Financial Corporation; Pharmacia Corporation; Phillips-Van Heusen Corporation; PSGA; Raritan Valley Community College; Rosenburg Rich Baker Berman; Rutgers University; Somerset County Office on Aging; Somerset County United Way; Somerset County Youth Council; Somerset Savings Bank; Somerset Valley Bank; Starbucks Coffee Company; Target; Teamstaff, Inc.; Temple Bethel; The NIA Group, LLC; 3M Company; Union Carbide Corporation; United Trust; Vandermark Merritt Glass Company; Warrenbrook Senior Center; The Willow School; World Savings; Zeus Scientific, Inc.

The more than 50 volunteers who helped to sort the items prior to delivery to the schools came from AT&T, Bristol-Myers Squibb, Barnes Law, Berlex, Chubb, Liberty Mutual, Morgan Stanley, National Starch & Chemical Company, The NIA Group, Ortho Biotech and Prudential, along with youth volunteers from local Girl Scout troops and Middle Earth.

“This is the largest Over The Rainbow program to date,” said Dudek. “Just look at the impact that we can have when we join together to help build a stronger community.”

Schools that are participating in the program include: Lafayette and Smalley schools in Bound Brook; Branchburg Central Middle, Stony Brook and Whiton schools in Branchburg; Adamsville Primary, Bradley Gardens, Crim Primary, Eisenhower Intermediate, Hamilton Primary, Hillside Intermediate, Old York and Van Holten schools in Bridgewater; Liberty Corner and William Annin schools in Bernards Township; Conerly Road, Elizabeth Avenue, Franklin Park, Hillcrest, Macafee Road, Pine Grove Manor schools in Franklin Township; Green Brook and Irene E. Feldkirchner Elementary schools in Green Brook; Auten Road, Hillsborough Middle, Sunnymead and Triangle schools in Hillsborough; Roosevelt and Weston Elementary schools in Manville; East End, Somerset, Stony Brook and West End schools in North Plainfield; John F. Kennedy school in Raritan; Somerville Middle and Vanderveer schools in Somerville; Robert Morris-Voorhees and NK Brampton schools in South Bound Brook.

After United Way delivers the supplies, school nurses are responsible for coordinating the distribution of items to eligible students in their schools. If your child is in need of school supplies and is a student at one of the schools participating in the program, you should contact the school nurse for more information.

Catholic Charities is a local nonprofit organization that provides a wide range of programs, including child care, youth development, emergency assistance and education, serving people of all faiths and walks of life. The organization recently had to renovate their Bridgewater facility, a situation that posed the possibility of a disruption in their valuable services to the community. This concern was alleviated by the assistance of concerned citizens that made the continuation of their services a priority.

On July 30, 2002, at the grand opening of their new facility, Phil Mercado and Millie Gaupp were each presented with awards from Catholic Charities, Diocese of Metuchen in recognition of their outstanding service and dedication.

Mercado, the general manager of the Summerfield Suites Hotel in Bridgewater, allowed staff to use his parking facilities as well as renting a suite of rooms at a greatly discounted rate for almost a full year allowing Catholic Charities staff to continue to provide services throughout the renovation of their facility.

The awards were presented at the new Bridgewater Diagnostic Center.

The Bridgewater Diagnostic Center is a newly built residential diagnostic assessment and referral center for adolescents ages 12 to 17. These teens have a history of Division of Youth and Family Services (DYFS) involvement. Many of them have been placed in multiple foster homes and now exhibit emotional disturbances as a result of these placements and a home life that is often chaotic and unstable. Center staff works with the teens to address not only medical and psychological needs, but also to address education and life skills. The average stay is 28 days, after which adolescents may be reunited with their family or referred to another out of home placement.

A short while after opening this case the Board of Social Services informed CVNA that they would need to close the case based on an increase in the client's bank balance. Upon investigation it was found that the excess money was a loan she had taken out for home repairs but due to her current health status was unable to complete the necessary arrangements. Office on Aging funds allowed CVNA to keep the case open and to increase the aide time to 5 days a week. It also allowed them time to determine whether, with proper diet and care management, this client would be able to safely stay at home. CVNA placed an early morning aide to assist the client in waking earlier, having a balanced breakfast and being able to plan her day. In a very short time the client's mental status improved; she was much more alert and began to participate more in her own care. With her grandson's help she was able to arrange for the home repairs that are currently underway. Both the quality of her life and her grandson's life has improved and she is able to stay safely at home with minimal assistance.

*Names have been changed to protect privacy

For more than six years, the Somerset County Cultural Diversity Coalition (SCCDC) has worked diligently to raise awareness of diversity issues in the workplace as well as within the community through a variety of educational programs and cultural events.

In response to the horrific attacks on September 11, 2001, SCCDC responded quickly by organizing an Interfaith Community Dialogue and Stop the Hate Vigil that was held on Thursday, October 4, 2001 at Raritan Valley Community College in North Branch, NJ. In addition to hearing from respected religious leaders in the community representing Bahai, Buddhist, Christian, Hindu, Jewish, Muslim, Sikh, and Unitarian Universalist faith traditions, the participants took part in small group discussions. An assessment was conducted to determine the group's opinions as to:

· How can we create and sustain interfaith dialogue in Somerset County?
· What can be done in our communities in light of the September 11th terrorist attacks?
· Can people of different faiths work together against fear and hate?

The results of the assessment indicate that most participants favored programs that advocate speaking out against hate. They advocated programs that educate adults and children about different faiths, opinions, and perspectives on politics. Programs that distinguish between patriotism and bigotry and distinguish between difference and discrimination were thought to help to eliminate the fear that all felt were barriers to intercultural understanding.

The evening concluded with a candlelight vigil in memory of those who had suffered and continue to suffer after September 11th. There was an emphasis on prayers for community unity and future peace and understanding throughout the world. The evening was a success thanks to the many cosponsors involved, including Raritan Valley Community College and the Somerset County United Way.

The Coalition, with its many partners, will be hosting this event again this year. The Interfaith Community Dialogue: "An Evening of Remembrance, Reconciliation and Healing" will be taking place on Thursday, October 3, 2002 from 6 to 9 pm at the Technological Center at Raritan Valley Community College. There will be an interfaith panel and small group discussions aimed at remembering those who died on 9/11 and learning about reconciliation and healing from different cultural perspectives. This will be followed by testimonials and an interfaith candlelight vigil. For more information on this upcoming event, please contact: Dr. Tulsi Maharjan at 908-526-1200 ext. 8312 or tmaharja@raritanval.edu.

(Reprinted from the Courier News, written by Chris Donahue)

Two teachers in the Flemington-Raritan Regional School District and seven employees of Ethicon are going to camp to help children learn English. "The camp is a free pilot program for students of Francis A. Desmares Elementary School in Raritan Township," said Desmares instructor Mitzi Morillo, on of five 'English as a Second Language' teachers in the district. Desmares math teacher, Linda Alsop, also volunteers at the camp, which began July 11 and ends August 2.

Classes are held 8:30 to 10 a.m. Tuesdays and Thursdays at Reading-Fleming Middle School. Sixteen children are participating. "The district will try to include its four elementary schools in the camp next summer because of the response of students and parents," assistant superintendent Linda Beyea said. "The district has fewer than 100 students who are learning English as a second language, but the number has almost quadrupled in the last five years, primarily because more Hispanic families are moving into the district. Desmares, which 45 students from 11 countries who speak English as a second language at home, has the most. The district has five full-time teachers for 'English as a second language' students."

Morillo's husband, Kiko, an employee in Ethicon's marketing department, said he and his wife wanted to do something good for the community and began recruiting co-workers for the camp. At least three Ethicon volunteers are at every camp session, reading books and helping children learn to spell. Ethicon is also collecting books for donation to the students.

Ethicon employee Larry Montes, 45, of Raritan Township said he's a member of Hispanci Organization for Leadership and Achievement, a group founded within the company to help Hispanic youth. "It will help them develop skills to become positive contributors to society," Montes said. "It also helps them not to struggle with different accents."

Isaac Careaga, 40, a native of Mexico who lives in Flemington, said he's very appreciative of the volunteers. His son, Isaac Joshua, 7, is an avid reader who also helps him pronounce words correctly, he said.

(This article, written by Cathy Bugman, was published in the Star-Ledger on May 30, 2002.)

The Reverend Stephen Rozzelle, spiritual leader of St. Mark's Episcopal Church in Basking Ridge and Board member of the Somerset County United Way, imparted some unexpected advice to teenagers before their confirmation ceremony: "Stop working on your self-confidence." Instead, he encouraged them to think of others more.

"Create someone's dignity" is how he phrased it. He told them that thinking of others will take their minds off their own insecurities and help them to grow spiritually and personally. He encouraged them to learn the name of the school cafeteria lady who dispenses milk every day, the janitor who cleans the bathrooms and others whom they may take for granted yet warrant recognition.

Even people outside of New Jersey have heard of Reverend Rozzelle's idea. A priest in Kentucky contacted Rozzelle to find out more. "Most clergy do it as a concept; I do it as a possibility," Rozzelle said. "Kids being part of someone's dignity has transformed them."

That's proven in parishioner Rachel Wojnar, a 14-year-old eighth-grader who was confirmed May 5. "During my dignity project, I started to see a new part of me that was kinder and cares more about others rather than only me," she said. "I started worrying less about my looks and what others think of me. I think more about other people's feelings now."

Rachel said she made two new friends and made many other people feel a little better about themselves. "Stephen's been a positive influence on our whole family," said Rachel's mother, Theresa, a longtime parishioner.

The Learning Gate, a nonprofit organization that provides quality day care to children and infants through age 6, defines "success" as seeing a child grow developmentally, academically and emotionally, despite their family circumstances. One little girl in particular embodies this definition.

In June of 2000, a little girl entered the Learning Gate program, coming from a very difficult family environment. She is the oldest of four children with two of her younger siblings suffering from extreme developmental delays. When this child first came to the Learning Gate, she was very shy and withdrawn. She had trouble interacting with her peers and often isolated herself from her classmates and teachers.

Staff and Administration began working with that little girl on a daily basis, giving her extra tender loving care to make her feel comfortable. As the days went by, she began to open up, sharing little life stories, as well as developing relationships with the other children, and engaging in parallel play with her peers. This was the first time this child had interaction with children other than her siblings. Academically, she started out slow, but now can write her full name, as well as recognize letters, numbers and small sight words.

Now, that little girl comes into the Learning Gate everday smiling. She has attached herself to several of her calssmates, which whom she helps academically. When a new child is enrolled in the school, she is the first student to help the new child adjust to the program. She is a pleasure, and a true success, of the Learning Gate program.

In need of help after the death of a spouse, many widows and widowers turn to HomeSharing for assistance, either in finding an affordable home to share, or in identifying someone to share the expenses of their home so that a move will not be necessary. This was the case, seven years ago, when HomeSharing brought together two widows to share one's Hillsborough home.

After her husband's death, *Dee was sharing an apartment with a friend, but it soon became clear that this living situation was not right for her. Dee read an article about HomeSharing in a local paper and decided she had nothing to lose. She met with social work staff to discuss her housing needs, one of which was a home large enough to accommodate her piano. Agency staff felt that she would be a good match with Sharon* a woman who needed to share her home after the death of her husband. The two women decided to give it a try, and Dee moved in in June 1995.

The initial adjustment period was difficult for both women and it was uncertain if they would choose to continue to live together. Staff worked to help the pair iron out the difficulties and preserve the match they knew could work out. Executive Director Shuey Horowitz participated in the mediation and recalls Dee describing the situation as two widows learning to adjust to each other.

"We hear this so often and really work to help people find some common ground and get past the first difficult months," Horowitz states.

Dee, an RN who currently works as an in-home hospice nurse, has a beautiful and peaceful place to live and, though she doesn't play the piano as often as she would like, her treasured instrument is there when she can find the time.

"HomeSharing has given me peace of mind and has been a very positive experience," Dee says. "Everyone has been so supportive and very caring," she adds.

Like so many of HomeSharing's clients, Dee continually shows her thanks and support for the agency by volunteering her time for the Holiday Basket Program and the Phonathon. Volunteers are responsible for the organization and implementation of the Holiday Program that provides food, gifts and other essentials to clients who would otherwise have no holiday. Her help, and the help of all the volunteer callers who solicit support from community residents during the Phonathon, ensures that the program will be available in the future to assist those who, like herself, find themselves at a crossroads and in need of a safe and affordable place to live.

* Name has been changed to protect privacy.

Somerset County, N.J. - Employees from Pharmaceutical Sourcing Group - Americas (PSGA), a Johnson & Johnson company, have spent the last few months making a difference in the community. Through the Volunteer Center of the Somerset County United Way, they've taken on a great many volunteer projects to not only help those in need but to also improve the quality of life for everyone in Somerset County.

Their projects have been diverse, from offering landscaping, clean-up and refurbishing of a deck for the Arc of Somerset County to being part of a special birthday celebration for local senior citizens and disabled individuals. They also helped in this year's Somerset County Teen Arts
Festival where approximately 1,300 local teenagers had the opportunity to exhibit their talents at Raritan Valley Community College.

"I really enjoyed working with the kids and I'm looking forward to volunteering in the event next year," said, Jeff Lane, a PSGA staff member who volunteered with the Teen Arts Festival. "The kids were great and the art work was just spectacular," adds his fellow employee, Kathleen Shortlidge-Toth.

The Somerset County United Way's monthly Birthday Buddies program offers groups or organizations a chance to host a birthday party at a local adult day care center to acknowledge clients -- senior citizens or disabled persons -- who are having a birthday that month. PSGA employees recently spent the afternoon with seniors at the Adult Day Center of Somerset County where they brightened the day of those celebrating their birthdays as well as the agency's other care recipients.

"I really enjoyed it and had fun dancing and partying with the seniors. I
was so glad to be able to help bring them cheer," said Prudence Smith of PSGA. "It was just great," added Cleo Harvey, also of PSGA. "I was glad to be able to put a smile on their faces."

Volunteers are extremely valuable to nonprofits that are generally faced
with low budgets and limited resources as they strive to care for those in need and provide valuable and enriching services to the community. The work of generous volunteers like the PSGA employees helps agencies dedicate their resources to service provision.

"All of the residents and their families as well as the staff at The Arc are
thrilled with the beautiful work done by the PSGA volunteers," said Louis Baldino, executive director for The Arc of Somerset County. "At the Steinmetz Group Home, they completely stained and preserved the entire deck and ramp that wraps around three sides of the house. The residents all have severe mobility issues and the deck is an important part of their lives. The PSGA group did the entire job and supplied all of the materials. We are extremely grateful for all of their hard work."

"The employees from PSGA are dedicated to lending their time, support and energy to nonprofit agencies and organizations in our area," said Paul Dudek, manager of Volunteer Services for the Somerset County United Way. "They clearly recognize the need for everyone to pitch in and help and are more than willing to take on that responsibility themselves. We appreciate support from companies like PSGA who promote community service projects and encourage volunteerism among their employees. It shows a strong commitment by the company and their staff to the good of the community."

Volunteers are always needed to assist local nonprofit agencies in serving the community. Some of the current opportunities include helping with clerical tasks, landscaping or building maintenance tasks, mentoring a child, grocery shopping for a senior, or serving on a committee or a board of trustees. Opportunities are available for groups and individuals, young and old. For more information about how you can volunteer, please contact the Volunteer Center at the Somerset County United Way at (908) 253-6506 or e-mail us at info@uwscty.org.

The Somerset County United Way's Community Care Fund provides financial support to the The Arc of Somerset County and other nonprofit agencies that provide crucial services. You can make a difference in someone's life by supporting United Way. To make a donation, visit United Way's website at www.somersetcountyunitedway.org or call them at (908) 725-6640.

A recent letter, directed to one of our New Jersey State Senators, from a caregiver speaks the praise of the Adult Day Center.

"Thank you for supporting my dearest group of sweethearts, namely the staff at the Adult Day Center of Somerset County. My mother is a daily participant in the activities at the Center. Having had her at two resident facilities within our county where her health and meager cognition deteriorated (she is both legally blind and an Alzheimer's sufferer), securing a place for her in this caring environment has made a great difference in her life and mine.

Without the creative, competent and committed staff at the Center, the challenge of keeping her mentally active and physically safe would have fallen entirely on me. Alternately, I could have allowed her to pass on due to malnutrition of mind and body in an understaffed and unmotivated institutional residence.

Now, thanks to the center and the services they offer, she can live in my home, I can work (albeit shortened hours) and we can both be happy living life to the fullest of our present abilities.

Incidentally while mother was a resident in assisted living facilities I calculated that we would be applying for MEDICAID in October, 2002. Having participated at the Center since December 4, 2000, I now estimate that, based on medical expenses, that date has been pushed to the year 2004 or later. Given my mother's current age, 88, perhaps we will never have to ask for such extensive support..... as long as there are people and places that match the environment at the Adult Day Center that is.

Again, on this day of recognizing loved ones, may I say thank you for assisting this very deserving team and the needs they meet with such enthusiasm and joy.

Designed to help at-risk and hard-to-reach youth prepare for the future, the Twilight Program is a vocational program available at no cost. Twilight provides young people, ages 14 to 21, with the skills and attitudes they'll need to participate effectively and successfully in the labor market and/or to continue their education.

The program offers high quality, hands-on vocational training with individual attention and small class sizes. Teachers and staff act as role models and provide the students with direction, support and respect. Additionally, the program offers transportation and meals, funding for child care in some cases, job placement and assistance with writing resumes, interviewing and the development of proper work habits.

Meet three young people whose future was brightened by the Twilight Program: Hilda, Evan, and Georgette. (Names have been changed to protect privacy.)

Hilda graduated from the Twilight Program in 1999. She is currently working full-time for Kelly Employment Services while she completes her second year at Middlesex County College. She is now deciding on which University she will apply to for her last two years of school. She is hoping to find a school that will offer subsidized housing for her and her daughter. Hilda has followed her heart... when she receives her college degree, she plans to teach elementary school students.

Evan, a recent graduate of the program, has started his own electrical construction company. He has been self-employed for five months and presently has contracts with a few local businesses. Evan is a very busy young man as he is still employed by another electrical company where he performs electrical trouble-shooting and rewiring work. Evan says he has so much work, he hopes to employ a few helpers in the near future, possibly from the Vo-Tech.

Georgette, another graduate from the Twilight Program, graduated from Bloomfield College in May 2001 with a major in criminal justice. She recently accepted a full-time position as a resident assistant for a nonprofit shelter for abused and neglected children. She supervises the youth, provides life skills education and training, and provides informal crisis interventions.

These three individuals are just an example of the many at-risk youth helped by the Twilight Program to become successful adults.

On September 12, 2001, Somerset County United Way established the Somerset County Families Relief Fund to address the specific needs of the families affected by September 11 in Somerset County. All of the funds donated to this account have been distributed.

"We would like to thank the many people who have donated their time, money or services to help their friends and neighbors in this time of need," stated Allen Reese, president of Somerset County United Way. "It is due to the generosity and support of many caring individuals, families, businesses and organizations that SCUW was able to help during this sad and trying time. We are truly thankful to be part of this caring community, which extends around the world to all who reached out to support those in need. "

Thanks to support from a caring community, a total of $266,901 was raised for the local Somerset County Families Relief Fund to help county residents who were impacted by the events of September 11. Of that amount:

An initial disbursement of $55,500 was made in early November to Somerset County households that lost a family member in the terrorist attacks.

A disbursement totaling $56,988 was made in late November to seven local nonprofit agencies to fund programs that included counseling, legal aid and additional direct financial assistance to victims.

In January, another $56,343, which includes a donation of $24,000 received from Valley of the Sun United Way in Phoenix, Arizona, was disbursed to five agencies to support ongoing programs that included counseling, support groups and therapy programs for both children and adults, direct financial assistance to victims, legal aid and assistance for displaced workers.

The agencies that received funds are Catholic Charities, Family and Community Services of Somerset County, Legal Services of Northwest Jersey, Jewish Family Services, Somerset Hills YMCA, the American Red Cross of Greater Somerset County and the American Red Cross - Tri-County Chapter.

In May, a final disbursement of $56,000 was made, $43,000 of which was distributed to families who lost a loved one. Catholic Charities received funds for financial assistance to displaced workers while The Somerset County Cultural Diversity Coalition received funding for efforts to promote tolerance of diversity and to help prevent hate crimes.

Funding decisions for the local relief fund were made by a special committee of SCUW's volunteer Board of Trustees. Agencies that received funding will be required to provide an accounting to SCUW on the use of these funds.

As of May 31, 2002 all money received to date has been distributed.

Carter*, a troubled teenager, lived with his mother and 5 other siblings in a very small apartment. He had no contact with his father, and the family was very poor. It was suspected that his mother was abusing drugs. This environment was having a large impact on his attitude and ability to be successful.

His neighborhood friends invited him to the Somerville Drop-In Center run by Middle Earth, a nonprofit organization that provides prevention, intervention and crisis services to help youth become responsible and productive members of the community. Their drop-in centers offer a safe and supervised place for youth to gather and to interact positively with their peers. The centers provide recreational activities, adult role modeling, crisis intervention, informal counseling, life skills education and information and referral services.

When Carter began attending the drop-in center, he was very defiant and unpleasant to the staff. Due to behavioral problems, he was asked to leave Middle Earth on several occasions. However, as time passed, he began to form supportive relationships with the Middle Earth staff, and his attitude began to change. Soon, he was friendly and willing to lend a hand when asked. Middle Earth staff referred him to the Summer Twilight Program, which provides vocational, basic and pre-employment skill training with counseling and other support services. Carter completed and graduated from the program.

Carter became a regular at the drop-in center for several years while he attended school in Somerville. Unfortunately, his life was about to change again. His family's apartment was condemned, and they were evicted. The family fled to another town. Carter was only able to visit the Somerville Drop-In Center from time to time. During one of these visits, Carter shared with Middle Earth staff that his mother had abandoned the family and was living on the streets. He was separated from his siblings as different family members took them in.

Carter lived with his grandmother and kept in occasional contact with Middle Earth staff by phone calls and visits. Earlier this year, he visited Middle Earth and proudly shared with staff that he had graduated from high school -- the first high school graduate in his family. He also asked the staff to help him get enrolled in college.

Middle Earth set up a visit to Raritan Valley Community College for Carter. He attended an appointment with the college and sat in on a history class. He has decided to enroll and will hopefully become the first of his family to graduate from college. Carter felt that Middle Earth was a resource as a youngster and is still looking to them for support and guidance as an adult.

* Names have been changed to protect privacy.

In the summer of 2000, Toni* realized her son, Jimmy, was missing a vital element of his childhood. Recently divorced, Jimmy's father was living in Florida, and the remaining family members surrounding the young boy were females. Jimmy's only experience with a positive male role model was during short visits and phone calls to his father. Toni enrolled Jimmy in the Big Brothers program.

The staff at Big Brother matched Jimmy with Matt, a well-rounded man with all the qualities inherent in a good mentor. Matt is a very positive, outgoing and trustworthy person who loves to work, learn and play all different types of sports. Since Matt experienced a somewhat troubled childhood, he wanted to give back to someone that needed a positive role model.

Despite some apprehension about having a stranger act as a "big brother" in his life, Jimmy and Matt hit it off immediately. Since then, Matt has made a tremendous difference in Jimmy's life. Matt has made Jimmy a part of his family by inviting him to his family events, such as birthdays and Christmas. Matt has taught his little brother the values of generosity and sharing. Jimmy is particularly grateful that Matt is generous by always paying for him whenever they go out together and responds by sharing movie tickets that he receives as gifts with his big brother instead of his friends. Matt has also taught Jimmy dependability and responsibility. Jimmy knows that when his big brother makes a commitment to see him, Matt will be there. This follow through has given Jimmy a feeling of security. And by working on homework together, Jimmy realizes that school is his responsibility that will make him successful.

Recently, Jimmy's father and his new wife had a baby. Prior to enrolling in the Big Brother program, Jimmy had expressed a great deal of reservations about having a baby in his life. However, after his dad called to tell him about the exciting news, Jimmie told his mom, "now I can be a big brother to the new baby like Matt is to me."

*Names have been changed to protect privacy.

Somerset County, N.J. - It wasn’t just in honor of National Volunteer Week that staff members at National Starch and Chemical Company, a member of the ICI Group, spent the day at the American Red Cross - Greater Somerset County volunteering this past week. A strong supporter of community-enriching programs, National Starch and Chemical Company offers year-round financial and volunteer support to many local nonprofit organizations.

National Starch employees Joya Chakrabarti, Lauren DaSylva, Chris Kaczmarczyk and Marilyn Russo, recently lent their time and energy to the Red Cross by planting flowers and preparing packages of donated items to be shipped to U.S. troops overseas. The packages, that included personal care products, books, videos and cards will be sent to troops in Kosovo, Afghanistan, Kuwait, Saudia Arabia and Bosnia. The items were donated by local schools, Girl Scout troops and individuals.

The group arranged the project through Somerset County United Way’s Volunteer Center. The Center annually matches more than 1,000 people with local nonprofit agencies that benefit from their help and maintains a database of current volunteer opportunities, both one-time and ongoing, for individuals and groups of all ages and interests. Those wishing to volunteer can receive one-on-one assistance in choosing an opportunity that interests them and fits their schedule.

“I like to volunteer to give something back to the community,” said Chris Kaczmarczyk, e-customer support manager in the Personal Care Division at National Starch and Chemical Company. “It also makes me feel good inside that I am helping people.”

Dedicated to helping the community and improving the quality of life for all, National Starch participates in numerous beneficial volunteer projects year round and supports staff members when they volunteer during work hours. “It is part of our corporate vision of making National Starch a role model in the communities where our employees live and work,” said Martin Torbert, National Starch and Chemical Foundation chairman.

“I’ve been working with staff from National Starch for seven years and now they feel like family to me,” said Pat Piazza, director of resource development for United Way. “They’re such strong supporters of our campaign and programs and are always asking for new volunteer opportunities and ways they can help. They’ll often bring their children to some of the projects they’re involved in which then gets the next generation interested in helping others. I’m just so touched by the generosity and compassion of everyone I’ve worked with at National Starch and I’m extremely proud to work with them.”

“We were really overwhelmed at the energy and effort that the volunteers from National Starch put into sorting and packing,” said Ellen Borzelli, volunteer coordinator for the Red Cross.

“They worked cheerfully all day,” added Eileen Trapp, also a volunteer coordinator. “Now the boxes are ready to be mailed to and enjoyed by our soldiers in various remote locations.”

The American Red Cross of Greater Somerset County is currently in need of donations of blankets to be stored for use in shelters during emergencies. Blankets must be either new or dry cleaned with the dry cleaning tag still attached. For more information about how you can make donations, please contact the Red Cross at (908) 725-2217.

Volunteers are always needed to assist local nonprofit agencies in serving the community. Some of the current opportunities include helping with clerical tasks, landscaping or building maintenance tasks, mentoring a child, grocery shopping for a senior, or serving on a committee or a board of trustees.

Somerset County United Way
205 West Main Street
Somerville, NJ 08876
(908) 725-6640

The Christian T. Nielsen Unsung Hero awards are intended to recognize staff and volunteers who produce exceptional results in the delivery of health and human services to people in need in Somerset County. The awards reflect the spirit of Chris Nielsen who, before his death in December 1998, was vice president of Manufacturing for National Starch and Chemical Company, vice chair of the Board of Trustees for Somerset County United Way and chair of United Way's Community Problem Solving Committee.

Throughout his volunteer career, Chris worked tirelessly to make a significant difference in the lives of people in need in Somerset County. A dedicated volunteer, Mr. Nielsen went about his work in a deliberate and purposeful manner, never seeking public recognition for his efforts but always true to his desire to help others.

The Christian T. Nielsen Unsung Hero Awards were created to pay tribute to people who give of themselves the way Mr. Nielsen did, quietly, effectively and with the utmost care and concern for the good of the community.

This year's STAR Award in the volunteer category went to Helen Fedor who serves as a volunteer job coach for Midland Adult Services/Employment Services. In that role she helps young adults with developmental disabilities learn the work skills and behaviors they will need to find employment in the community. She accepts and respects each participant, often lending a listening ear when they have a problem and always laughing at their jokes. At 74 years old, Helen volunteers five days a week in this program. Her nominator said, "Helen gives much and asks for nothing in return. We are blessed in having her with us each day."

John Madden was the recipient of the STAR Award in the staff category. John works in the Senior Shopper Program at Catholic Charities. This program uses staff and volunteers to grocery shop for people who are unable to shop for themselves. Most are elderly, many are homebound and some have disabilities. Some of these people also struggle with other activities of daily living. John frequently goes beyond the shopping role to advocate for clients with banks, utility companies and other organizations. His efforts have helped these clients resolve issues which in turn helps them to remain living independently in their own homes. Though he faces his own personal challenges, he does not let that interfere with meeting the needs of his clients in a consistently cheerful and pleasant way.

Somerset County United Way was very pleased to have the chance to honor these caring individuals and thanks them for their compassion and hard work.