Somerset County Association of Young Professionals
c/o Somerset County United Way
205 West Main Street
Somerville, NJ 08876
(908) 253-6527

“The day was great and we were amazed at how much trash we collected,” said Amy Dupuis, corporate relations representative for Aventis Pharmaceuticals and chair of volunteer events for SCAYP. “We found many old train parts, including some that had to be more than 50 years old. It is great to be able to give back to the community and to know that picking up trash in this location is improving the environment for everyone.”

Participants had a chance to meet new people also interested in improving the community and making a difference. “The event drew many of our current members as well as new ones,” said Paul Dudek, manager of volunteer services for United Way and event coordinator for SCAYP. “Everyone was happy to join in and we all had a lot of fun while doing something worthwhile.”

The project was arranged through the Morris Land Conservancy, a nonprofit, member-based organization dedicated to preservation of open space. Volunteers enhance the maintenance of these properties to ensure clean air and clean water, diverse plant and wildlife habitat, outdoor recreation and scenic landscapes for the region and future generations.

The volunteer’s hard work will help protect the cleanliness of the water and improve the safety and beauty of the site. “The partnership between Morris Land Conservancy and philanthropic civic organizations, such as Somerset County Association of Young Professionals, is essential to getting needed environmental work done,” said Mary Beth Cooney, project director for the Morris Land Conservancy. “With the drought, we are all more aware of how important clean drinking water is. The job these volunteers did was amazing. Their work removed approximately 1,200 pounds of trash and debris from the banks of the Peapack Brook, a waterway that helps feed the Raritan River. This was an important step in providing clean water for thousands of New Jerseyans.”

SCAYP offers a number of community-based and career-oriented projects and events throughout the year including group volunteer opportunities, fund-raising for health and human service programs, leadership training, social events and workshops to aid in career growth. Members have the opportunity to take on civic responsibilities while networking and enjoying new experiences in both the professional and community-based sectors. SCAYP welcomes new members interested in cultivating their personal and professional growth while making Somerset County a better place to live and work.

For more information on SCAYP or other volunteer opportunities, please call (908) 253-6527 or visit their website at www.somersetonline.org/scayp.htm.

Held during National Volunteer Week, this year’s event celebrated the many caring volunteers who work hard and selflessly throughout the year to serve those in need. The volunteers were thanked for their willingness to put the needs of others first and in so doing, providing a shining example for all of us.

More than 100 volunteers were honored, young and old, individuals and groups, all with diverse backgrounds, but with one thing in common. All exemplify a sincere desire to help others. Mentoring youth, helping in the fight against hunger, visiting the homebound, advocating for victims of domestic violence and running pet therapy programs are just some of the valuable efforts of those who received thanks.

A new component of this year’s STAR Awards was the presentation of the Christian T. Nielsen Unsung Hero awards which honor both a volunteer and employee in the health and human services field who go above and beyond to serve people in need in Somerset County. John Madden, who works in the Senior Shopper Program at Catholic Charities, was the winner in the staff category and Helen Fedor was the winner in the volunteer category for her work as job coach for Midland Adult Services/Employment Services.

The evening was hosted by John Graf, Jr., foundation coordinator of the Somerset County Vocational-Technical High School Foundation. John knows very personally the rewards of volunteering. One of our county’s most exemplary volunteers, he was just voted “Outstanding Citizen of the Year” by the Somerset County Chamber of Commerce.

The evening also featured a video presenting many of those being honored; words of thanks from Aldona Valickiene, a client who has benefited from Literacy Volunteers of Somerset County; and a tribute to volunteerism by Sue Wetzel, group director in Contract Administration for Johnson & Johnson Health Care Systems and former president of SCUW.

Volunteers perpetuate compassion for and sensitivity to the problems of others. They build healthy communities that work together and foster citizenship and camaraderie. For their dedication and compassion, and for making ours a caring community, Somerset County United Way would like to thank all of Somerset County’s wonderful volunteers.

For more information about how you can volunteer, please contact Somerset County United Way’s Volunteer Center at (908) 253-6506.

Somerset County, N.J. - In observance of National Volunteer Week, April 21 to 27, Somerset County United Way (SCUW) would like to thank the many volunteers who have given of themselves to make Somerset County a better place in which to live and work.

“At United Way, we recognize that volunteers are a very valuable resource to our organization, our affiliated agencies and the community,” said Paul Dudek, manager of volunteer services for United Way. “We have several programs that promote volunteerism. One of these, the Volunteer Center, helps to annually match more than 1,000 people with local nonprofit agencies that benefit from their help.”

“Many agencies could not provide their current levels of service to the community without the hours of work donated by volunteers,” said Denis McGrath, executive director of the Franklin Township Food Bank. “And, there are endless ways in which someone can lend their time and energy. All types of skills are needed.”

United Way’s Volunteer Center maintains a database of current volunteer opportunities, both one-time and ongoing, for individuals and groups of all ages and interests. Callers will receive one-on-one assistance in choosing an opportunity that interests them and fits their schedule. Some of the current opportunities include helping with clerical tasks, landscaping or building maintenance tasks, mentoring a child, grocery shopping for a senior, or serving on a committee or a board of trustees.

“These days, most of us have such busy lives that we tend to lose contact with our local communities and their concerns and needs,” said Jack, a volunteer for the Franklin Food Bank. “Volunteering at a local agency, like the Food Bank, helps to reestablish that contact.”

Somerset County United Way has seen an upswing in the number of people interested in volunteering since September 11. “We’ve definitely seen an increase in volunteer inquiries in the last few months,” said Dudek. “But plenty of opportunities still exist.”

Other United Way programs that promote volunteerism include STAR Awards, an annual event that recognizes outstanding volunteers and the important roles they play in our community. The Management Assistance Program matches volunteers with a particular skill, such as accounting, marketing or technology, with a local agency that could use their expertise. With its annual Day of Caring, United Way identifies and coordinates one-day projects for volunteer groups at local agencies. And, Project BluePrint helps to strengthen the local nonprofit system by making it more accessible and responsive to culturally diverse communities. Project BluePrint participants receive free training on the roles and responsibilities of board members through eight interactive sessions. In return for their training, class graduates agree to serve on a nonprofit board or committee for a period of at least one year.

To learn more about these or other United Way programs, contact the Volunteer Center at (908) 253-6506 or visit www.somersetcountyunitedway.org.

IN GOOD HANDS:
United Way Agency Offers Support Companionship and Peace of Mind

Adult Day Center of Somerset County
120 Finderne Avenue
Bridgewater, NJ 08807
(908) 725-0068

Somerset County, N.J. – When Clark suffered strokes and then a fall that resulted in brain damage, it challenged the ability of his wife, Helen, to continue to act as his caretaker. In her 70s, Helen knew Clark would need more than she, alone, would be able to give him. So she turned to the Adult Day Center of Somerset County, a Somerset County United Way-affiliated agency.

"I had heard about the Adult Day Center of Somerset County and brought him in," said Helen. "Now he’s been coming here for the past five years. It’s been the best thing for us because it gives me peace of mind knowing that he’s well taken care of and he gets a lot of love."

Located in Bridgewater, the Adult Day Center offers day programs for elderly and disabled adults. The service includes medical and social services as well as companionship, recreation, counseling and educational programs. Care recipients benefit not only from these services but also by avoiding premature institutionalization. Daytime care allows their families to work and tend to daily responsibilities, knowing that their loved one is well taken care of by experienced, skilled and caring staff members and volunteers.

"We started the Adult Day Center 25 years ago with the simple mission of providing an alternative to institutional care for the frail and vulnerable elderly of Somerset County," said Jeff Macaulay, executive director of the Center. "We are here to help them live their lives with the maximum of independence, respect and dignity. The people in the program include those with Alzheimer’s disease and those who have encountered chronic problems in their retirement. We are able to support them so their families can work and they can flourish."

Helen points out that she and Clark had donated money to United Way when they were working, and now it’s funding from United Way that helps make this day care program possible.

"The people at the Center are great and they show a lot of love and respect. The care recipients keep their dignity here," states Helen. "A lot of people depend on this place."

Donors made it possible for Somerset County United Way to provide financial and other support to the Adult Day Center of Somerset County and other nonprofit agencies that offer crucial services. You can make a difference in someone’s life by supporting United Way’s Community Care Fund. To make a donation, visit United Way’s website at www.somersetcountyunitedway.org or call them at (908) 725-6640.

Summer Fun For All:
4-H Offers Camp Scholarships to Families in Need

Somerset County, N.J. - With summer fast approaching, it’s time for many parents to start thinking about summer camp for their children. Adventure, fresh air, friends and a variety of activities make the summer camp experience a valuable and memorable one for those who attend. Unfortunately, the cost can be prohibitive for many families.

Recognizing the positive impact camp has on children and their parents, the 4-H Youth Development Program of Rutgers Cooperative Extension of Somerset County, a Somerset County United Way-affiliated agency, is pleased to offer scholarships to 4-H summer camps for those unable to pay for the programs on their own.

“We had a family in financial need that was able to attend our Summer Adventure Week day camp last year,” said Lisa Rothenburger, executive director for the 4-H. “The kids, who are just learning to speak English, really benefited from the interaction with other kids and counselors and they’re hoping to attend again this year.”

Another parent, a single mother of three children, was given the opportunity to attend Family Camp with her children at L.G. Cook Camp in Stokes State Forest in Sussex County. “The camp offers families a chance to spend time together and get to know other families and kids in 4-H. It’s a great bonding opportunity in a beautiful location,” states Rothenburger.

4-H offers a variety of camp programs that are geared to each camper’s age and ability. Activities include swimming, boating, archery, canoeing, rock climbing, hiking, crafts, nature studies and many more experiences that help campers develop their social, athletic and academic skills while giving them a chance to unwind in country fresh air.

“Children do not need to belong to 4-H to receive scholarships to our camps,” adds Rothenburger. “To inquire about the scholarship program, they just have to call the 4-H office and we’ll send them the forms and information they need.”

Thanks to these scholarships, children that might not have been able to attend camp are now able to do so. And, their parents can rest assured that they are having a fun, enriching and safe summer with new friends and the camp’s responsible staff. For more information about the 4-H Summer Camp programs, please contact 4-H at (908) 526-6644.

Somerset County United Way provides financial support to the Somerset County 4-H Youth Development Program and other nonprofit agencies that provide crucial services. You can make a difference in someone’s life by supporting United Way’s Community Care Fund. To make a donation, visit United Way’s website at www.somersetcountyunitedway.org or call them at (908) 725-6640.

Jade Alston used to wistfully watch her friends ride their bikes in her East Orange neighborhood. Now, with the help of employees from a Bridgewater-based corporation, 14-year-old Jade can join in the fun.

Jade was born with osteogenesis imperfecta, also known as brittle bone disease. Her bones are highly susceptible to fractures, making it difficult for her to do many of the normal things kids do. While attending outpatient therapy at Children's Specialized Hospital in Mountainside, NJ, Jade learned about an adaptive bicycle, which is designed to accommodate her physical limitations and enable her to ride independently.

Three years ago, employees at a Bridgewater company formed the "Make a Difference Committee". While the company prefers to remain anonymous, this volunteer group organizes employee projects to help individuals and groups in the local community. When they learned about Jade's desire for a bike, the group held a Change Collection program and a golf-putting contest at their company to raise the necessary funds.

Fellow employees donated loose change and lunch money and showed off their putting skills all in an effort to reach their goal of $1300 for Jade's bike. The Rehabilitation Technology department at Children's Specialized Hospital then customized the bike for Jade's unique requirements. Make a Difference committee members recently visited the hospital and presented the bike to Jade and her mother, Audrey Alston.

"I've had Jade's picture up on my cubicle wall for months. Sharing in Jade's excitement at being able to ride a bike like other kids makes all our efforts worthwhile," said Make a Difference Committee Chair and co-founder Polly Hartmann Badiak. "Even the color, hot pink, was made for her!"

"Jade has wanted a bike for such a long time. This gift will not only enable her to feel more independent, but it will also help to build her strength and endurance," said Michele Krosnick, Jade's physical therapist at the hospital.

Although she is largely dependent on a wheelchair, Jade has not let her condition stop her from succeeding. Jade is a straight A student, a member of the National Junior Honor Society, and she plays both harp and piano. Now Jade can enjoy another childhood activity she didn't think was possible.

The Make a Difference Committee worked with Children's Specialized Hospital Foundation to help make Jade's bike a reality. The Foundation is the fund raising arm of Children's Specialized Hospital, the largest comprehensive pediatric rehabilitation hospital in the United States. With facilities throughout New Jersey, the hospital provides a wide array of medical, developmental, educational and rehabilitative services for infants, children, adolescents and young adults.

The Foundation compiles a wish list for hospital patients and departments, including special therapy equipment. If you are interested in learning more about the hospital or in making a donation, call the Foundation office at 908-301-5410.

Shortly after he was enrolled at The King's Daughters Day School, a Somerset County United Way-affiliated agency, the staff began to notice that 5-year-old Jonathan was experiencing problems with certain developmental issues.

"Jonathan exhibited difficulty with comprehension and following one-step directions," said Valeria Erdosi-Mehaffey, executive director of the school. "He typically completed tasks by mimicking other children. He also struggled with verbal communication and spoke using one-syllable sounds that only vaguely resembled the words he was trying to express. His social skills were limited, which was exhibited by minimal relationships and independent play."

Members of the school's staff discussed their concerns with Jonathan's mother and recommended a medical evaluation, that turned out to be inconclusive. The staff continued to push the matter and advocated on behalf of the young boy's mother to the Special Services division of the local Board of Education, which then set up a thorough evaluation. Finally, after a number of tests, it was determined that Jonathan needed intensive speech therapy.

But this raised yet another issue. The therapy sessions that Jonathan would need to attend were only available during the middle of the day. Because of her full-time job, Jonathan's mother would need help getting him back and forth to classes. Devoted to ensuring his well-being, the staff and Jonathan's mother worked together towards a solution. Arrangements were made for him to attend the Day School in the morning, be transported to his classes in the afternoon and then return to the Day School where his mother would pick him up at 4:30 p.m.

Thanks, in part, to early intervention by the staff at the Day School and a flexible schedule, Jonathan is receiving the specialized care he needs.

"Jonathan's communication skills have improved greatly," said Erdosi-Mehaffey. "He expresses himself clearly and is rather chatty. This experience has improved his self-esteem as well. Jonathan is on his way to academic success."

Located in Plainfield, King's Daughters Day School provides child care for area children as young as 14 months and school-age care for children in kindergarten through grade five. In order to build a foundation for each child to become a responsible, productive member of society, the school offers enriching programs and developmentally appropriate educational programs in a nurturing environment for children of working parents.

Somerset County United Way provides financial support to The King's Daughters Day School and other nonprofit agencies that provide crucial services. You can make a difference in someone's life by supporting United Way's Community Care Fund. To make a donation, visit United Way's website at www.somersetcountyunitedway.org or call them at (908) 725-6640.

Somerset County, N.J. - Twenty-six individuals were honored as graduates of the 13th class of Somerset County United Way’s (SCUW) Project BluePrint diversity leadership development program. Sponsored by Merck & Company, Inc., the graduation ceremonies took place at their corporate headquarters in White House Station with Gregory Reaves, Merck’s senior director of media relations, as the keynote speaker.

Modeled on a national program, Project BluePrint aims to create a more open and caring community by encouraging and enhancing minority participation on boards and committees of nonprofit agencies and organizations. Diverse volunteers receive training on the roles and responsibilities of board members through eight interactive sessions. Class 13 is the second to be offered jointly by SCUW and United Way of Hunterdon County.

“It was wonderful to work with such a caring and committed group of people,” said Michele Horst, director of agency and volunteer services for SCUW. “Clearly, everyone involved in this class is determined to make a difference in our community and it’s rewarding to be part of the process.”

Not only does Project BluePrint strengthen participants’ leadership and management skills, it also provides nonprofit agencies with a valuable source of volunteers who are committed to serving their community. This enables agencies to reduce valuable time and money spent on recruiting and training volunteers to assume leadership roles and offers better representation of all segments in the community in the decision-making process. Corporations that encourage their employees to participate in Project BluePrint benefit from the leadership and management training that the program provides.

“The wealth of information I encountered, not only regarding boards, but also the different agencies that exist in my community, is extraordinary,” said graduate Nicole Strickland, senior engineer in Merck & Co.’s Process Engineering department. “There is such a breadth of opportunity for service, I’m having trouble choosing just one agency in which to serve.”

“I hated to see the class end,” said graduate Joan Swain. “I was impressed with the professional quality of each of the presentations we heard. The hand-out materials are excellent and will provide helpful reference material for our board work. I know that the preparation I received from Project BluePrint will be of great value. I’d recommend that anyone interested in serving on a nonprofit board contact United Way for details about this outstanding program.”

Graduates of Class 13 of Project BluePrint include: Linda Bennett (retired), Leone Infantry and Tanya Love of AT&T; Melissa La Von Booker and Peggy Griffin (retired), Lucent Technologies; Robert S. Casar and Dana Mendenhall, Ethicon, Inc.; Tom Chambers, Debra Freedholm, Cheryl Hsu, Priscilla Huang, Tim Keppel, Marybeth Lynch, Erica J. Mullen and Nicole Strickland of Merck & Co., Inc.; Efren Dato, independent organizational consultant; Rev. Jeannette DeFriest, Church of Messiah in Chester; Sheila Deymann, Pharma-Care, Inc.; Willie B. Goods (retired), PSEG; Peter McAuliffe, Prudential Insurance Company; Marianne McEvoy, Hunterdon County Health Department; Jane Tonero (retired); Bryan Strickland, Hamon Research Corporation; Joan L. Swain (retired), Aventis Pharmaceutical; Alaysha M. Walker, Raritan Valley Community College and Jorge Zeballos, State of New Jersey.

Registration for the next Project BluePrint class is underway. Classes are scheduled to begin in March and run through the beginning of May. To apply, visit SCUW’s website at www.somersetcountyunitedway.org or Somerset Online at www.somersetonline.org or call (908) 725-6640.

SCUW President Allen Reese and members of the staff were on-hand to give the scouts a tour of the office and to detail United Way’s many community-building initiatives. The girls learned about United Way’s Volunteer Center, fundraising and fund distribution processes, affiliated agencies and more.

“Everyone was so gracious,” said Beth Korn, the troop’s co-leader. “They did a great job of communicating United Way’s role in the community in a way the girls could relate to and understand. They gave a lot of information on how they can contribute to the community. The girls had a nice time and are very interested in getting involved in volunteer initiatives to help others.”

Integral to the Girl Scouts’ mission is for the girls to have the opportunity to contribute to society and acquire leadership skills. The visit to SCUW allowed the scouts to earn their You and Your Community badge.

“Until now, we have enjoyed mostly recreational activities, like pumpkin-picking and candy-making. We now plan to focus on more service-oriented activities. Our visit to United way gave us some good ideas, such as giving to the Over The Rainbow school supplies drive. Our next activity will be helping disabled children with a benefit event held in their honor,” stated Korn.

“These young women displayed the best values of Americans,” said Reese. “They embodied a sense of responsibility and compassion for those less fortunate.”

The Girl Scouts of the U.S.A. serve the unique interests and needs of girls by providing an informal education program in partnership with caring adult volunteers, which inspires girls with the highest ideals of character, conduct, leadership, patriotism and service to others in the community. Girls are able to reach their full individual potential, relate to others with more understanding and skill and develop values to guide their actions and decisions. SCUW provides program funding to both the Rolling Hills and Washington Rock Girl Scout councils.

Somerset County, N.J. - Victor relies on his determination, abilities and ambition to help him overcome a number of disabilities including neurological and communication impairments and being legally blind. And, thanks to the staff at The Midland School, a Somerset County United Way-affiliated agency, Victor is living an independent and rewarding life.

Victor, now in his 30s, attended Midland School from the age of 8 until he was 18 years old. "Midland had a school-to-work program for students to transition into the work field," explains Victor’s brother, Keith. "Victor was one of the first students to take part in it and went to Ethicon, Inc."

Victor has worked at Ethicon ever since and is well liked at his job where he is thought of as reliable, responsible and friendly. Able to support himself by working a full 40 hours each week, Victor currently owns a condo in Somerset County where he lives with his wife.

Victor is also an avid weight lifter and has been working out diligently with his brother Craig, who also lifts weights, for more than ten years. At only 4’10" and 130 pounds Victor is able to bench press 260 pounds and can squat and deadlift around 350 pounds and has successfully competed in local, state and worldwide events, including the National Special Olympics where he won gold, silver and bronze medals. His ambition keeps him going and he is currently training for the possibility of being in the 2003 World Games.

Victor has also had the opportunity to travel to many parts of the world, including Iceland, England, Ireland, St. Thomas and Canada. His brother Keith joined him on one trip as a supervisor and was amazed to watch his brother as he tried out the trapeze, went rock climbing and parachuted.

"There are no boundaries for him in anything he does," said Keith. "There have been many influential people in Victor’s life and I am sure he will meet more. Midland School is definitely high on the list of those who have brought Victor to where he is in the world."

"I find Victor to be remarkable," said Philip Gartlan, executive director of The Midland School. "He never lets his disabilities stand in his way. He is a confident and determined young man. After spending time with him you soon forget he has any disabilities at all."

Midland School is a nonprofit, private rehabilitation center serving the special educational needs of children ages 5 to 21 with cognitive, behavioral and communication disorders. In addition to comprehensive learning offered through personalized special education programs are the work ethic and training programs that prepare and empower students for meaningful, productive and satisfying competitive and/or sheltered employment.

As a Somerset County United Way affiliated-agency, Midland School is eligible for financial support and other services from SCUW, including gifts in kind services, volunteer recruitment and educational workshops. You can make a difference in someone’s life by supporting United Way. To make a donation, visit United Way’s website at www.somersetcountyunitedway.org or call them at (908) 725-6640.

After she was married, Olivia left her family and friends in New Jersey to move with her husband to Texas. Olivia was happy and content, living the life of which she’d always dreamed.

A few years later, the abuse started. Olivia’s husband began to hit her. With nowhere to go for help or support, Olivia felt she had no choice but to stay and hope things would change for the better. They didn’t. Ten years later, with four children, Olivia was the victim of constant abuse and knew she had to do something to save her children from a dangerous situation. Finally, she took her children and boarded a bus bound for New Jersey.

But Olivia’s life continued to spiral out of control when she was unable to find a job. It wasn’t until she finally received help through the Amandla Crossing Transitional Housing Program, sponsored by MIPH, that Olivia was able to get back on track.

"During her stay at Amandla Crossing Olivia was able to pull herself together and provide safety and stability for herself and her children while she received counseling to work on some of her issues," said Andrea Krich, executive director of MIPH. "Olivia became a leader and role model for the other residents, assisting them with their problems, guiding them and supporting them through their tribulations."

Middlesex Interfaith Partners with the Homeless helps homeless people in the community through a number of supportive services. The Amandla Crossing Transitional Housing Program was established to provide transitional housing and comprehensive services to homeless single parents and their children. "Our goal is to help the parents learn the skills they need to recognize their problems, know how to get help and persevere," said Krich.

A 12-month program, Amandla Crossing gives single-parent families on welfare the chance to recover from the trauma of homelessness while working to build and hone the skills needed to find a better life once they’ve acquired permanent housing. Recipients also benefit from case management, a child development center, education and literacy programs and assistance in finding housing. Through the program, each family is provided with privacy and space in their own apartment as they work to heal themselves and their lives and to make a home.

Upon graduation from Amandla Crossing, Olivia found a three-bedroom home for herself and her children and was offered a job helping abused women at a local social service agency. Thanks to Amandla Crossing, Olivia discovered what she was capable of and is able to make a better life for herself and her children.

You can make a difference in someone’s life by supporting United Way’s Community Care Fund. To make a donation, visit United Way’s website at www.somersetcountyunitedway.org or call them at (908) 725-6640.

Connie was six months pregnant and suddenly facing raising her child on her own. The financial demands of the home were too much for her to handle alone, but selling the house was the last thing she wanted to do. Her childhood was spent in Queens, New York and she was determined that her child would grow up in a different environment. That meant only one thing to Connie; she had to hold on to her house, with its large yard, no matter what. It was this dream that led her to HomeSharing eight years ago.

HomeSharing was just the answer she was looking for. She was wary of placing an ad in the newspaper, and the extensive screening and interview process that both home providers and home seekers must undergo with the agency provided a needed sense of security. Soon Connie was matched with a young man who was looking for a local place to live after his parents moved out of state. His arrangement with Connie allowed him an affordable housing situation while he finished school, and provided her with the additional income and assistance with yard work that she needed. This was just the first of the HomeSharing situations in which Connie has been involved.

Subsequent matches have included sharing her home with a man who, in exchange for reduced rent, used his carpentry skills to create a finished room in her basement, and she remains close friends with a woman who lived with her until she married and moved out of state. As living situations conclude, Connie and her son, Billy, who will soon be celebrating his eighth birthday, continually return to HomeSharing to be re-matched.

Connie highly recommends HomeSharing to anyone who is trying to hold onto their home, or who is in need of an affordable place to live.

"Without HomeSharing I would have lost my house," remarked Connie. "It's a great program and I've met so many wonderful people," she added.

Connie and Billy have also benefited from the volunteer-run holiday program. For HomeSharing participants making ends meet is an on-going problem and the holidays, with the extra expenses for meals and gifts, pose a unique challenge. Volunteers and donors work to ensure that the holidays are special for all involved with the agency.

"HomeSharing has always been there to help. Because of them we have had so many wonderful holidays with plenty of food and beautiful gifts for Billy," Connie stated.

Through the years Connie has struggled to maintain her house and with it her dream for a better life for her son. It hasn't always been easy, but with her hard work, determination and some help from HomeSharing she's holding on.

"Most importantly, Billy has a home with a big backyard with plenty of room to play. We even have a dog," Connie said.

Somerset County, N.J. - Twenty years after she first set foot in Middle Earth as a teen, Sarah decided it was time to give something back by helping others make their way along the right path. A Somerset County United Way-affiliated agency in Somerville, Middle Earth offers programs to meet the social, emotional and physical needs of youth, but to Sarah and the kids she now works with, the agency offers much more.

Now a full-time staff member at Middle Earth, Sarah knows first-hand the importance of reaching out and offering teens a place to turn to when they need support and guidance or just someone to talk to.

“Middle Earth is unique in that it fosters a genuine sense of support and camaraderie between the kids that come here,” said Sarah. “It’s like a family with such a diverse bunch of young people from different economic and social backgrounds. There are teens who are in difficult situations who need and want to be here so they can stay out of trouble while some of them just want a place to go and hang out with people who accept them for who they are. One thing they all have in common is that they come to Middle Earth by choice. It’s relaxed and informal and they can be themselves and be embraced by the staff and the other kids.”

It’s that sense of fitting in, Sarah believes, that helped her and helps the Middle Earth kids, many of whom are considered at-risk, stay on the right track rather than getting into trouble. “Parents can only do so much to make sure they’re kids are behaving. Middle Earth is able to lend a hand and be part a caring network that helps kids make the right decisions that will ensure their well-being and lead them to succeed. When I was a teenager, everyone at Middle Earth inspired me to do better. They believed in my potential and they raised the bar. We behaved because we didn’t want to disappoint them. For many of us they became our conscience.”

“Sarah’s been an integral part of our agency,” states Dan Puntillo, executive director for Middle Earth. “She knows what being a teenager is all about. She’s lived it and because of that, she’s a great role model. It’s extremely rewarding to see the benefits of our work when the kids we work with prove themselves through their own successes.”

Through interactive projects, field trips, counseling, positive reinforcement; by offering them a place to go when they’re in need or simply a place to hang out and spend time with friends in a safe and nurturing atmosphere, Middle Earth is helping youths become capable and productive members of the community. Instilling in them positive growth options, the agency teaches youth how to use free time constructively, interact positively with peers and stay out of trouble.

“Middle Earth knows that the kids they serve have a better chance of making it if they have some help along the way,” states Sarah. “That’s why I’m forming partnerships with young people, in the hopes that I will be able to provide them with the ability to become responsible adults, even, for some, in the face of difficult odds, just as Middle Earth has done for me. Middle Earth is a huge part of who I am today.”

SCUW’s Community Care Fund provides financial support for programs at Middle Earth and other affiliated agencies. To make a donation, visit United Way’s website at www.somersetcountyunitedway.org or call them at (908) 725-6640.

At the time Michael* was arrested for a minor charge he was homeless and sleeping outdoors. Years back he had served in the U.S. military and his experiences in Vietnam had left him emotionally wounded, unable to hold a job or interact with people. In fact, for nearly 20 years he'd been living apart from society, unable to cope.

When he was released from jail a few days later he decided it was finally time to accept help, so he turned to the Jail Chaplaincy of Somerset County's Bridges Program. Through Bridges, Michael was provided with temporary housing and food. His Bridges representative took him to the Somerset County Board of Social Services where he applied for further temporary housing and food stamps. With further help from the Bridges staff he went to the social security office where he reestablished his social security and disability benefits.

His Bridges representatives continued to help Michael get back on his feet by giving him clothing and pocket money. They assisted him in opening a checking account, took him grocery shopping and washed his laundry.

Through the Bridges program Michael continued to receive the assistance he needed through the knowledgeable and experienced staff who also escorted him to the Somerset County Veteran's Affairs Office to apply for veteran's pension and to Lyons Veteran's Hospital to manage his medical needs.

Months after sleeping on the streets, alone and with no hope, Michael's life has turned around. He is sleeping in his own bed, relying on his own income, writing checks and looking forward to weekly visits from his caring Bridges counselor.

Located in Somerville, the Jail Chaplaincy of Somerset County provides a number of valuable services to meet the emotional, spiritual, social and physical needs of inmates and ex-offenders. Through these services, which include advocacy, education opportunities and counseling, inmates and ex-offenders receive help in becoming productive and responsible citizens.

The Jail Chaplaincy can always use donations of men's new, white undershirts and underwear; greeting cards and plastic bottles of shampoo. For more information, please contact the agency.

*Names have been changed for privacy.

"While I was happy, I was no longer searching for somewhere to live," she said. "I knew I wanted my own apartment for my son and myself." The staff at Franklin House was able to secure a Section 8 Voucher for Hill, and guided her to the Somerset County Coalition on Affordable Housing. (Approved clients pay 30 percent of their rental costs, while 70 percent of the rent is government subsidized and re-evaluated annually.)

"At that time, I was attending nursing school full time and working for a pediatrician. All I wanted was a nice, clean apartment in a nearby area where I felt was safe," Hill said. The staff at Somerset County Coalition on Affordable Housing encouraged her to look at available apartments in Somerset County. "At first, I thought those apartments would be too far away from my school and my job," she said. "But the staff kept persisting with their request."

Taking their advice, the busy young mother took the time to look at an available unit. "I could not believe how nice the apartment was," she said. "I felt truly blessed." After filling out a battery of forms, Hill found herself among the many income-qualifying and credit-approved people able to have their name placed in a random selected lottery. When an apartment became available, her number was chosen. She was finally able to have a place to call her own.

"I was blessed. I was able to move into this lovely one bedroom low-income unit," she said. "I was so happy, but realized after living there for one year, and sharing a bedroom with my son, it was time for him to have his own room." Wanting to remain in the same apartment complex, yet determined to find a way to move to a two-bedroom apartment, the young mother had to repeat the entire documentation process. In addition to completing the many forms, she had to go through another random-selection drawing. But persistence paid off: she and her son recently moved into a two-bedroom apartment. She now attends Raritan Valley Community College full time and works part time in the emergency room at Robert Wood Johnson University Hospital.

"KiAnne Hill has been working with our office for more than 18 months. We feel she is a success story," said Sharon Clark, executive director of the Somerset County Coalition on Affordable Housing.

"I always felt comfortable coming to SCCOAH, and every staff person was nice, courteous and provided me with so much hope," Hill said. Of the lessons learned from her experiences, she stated, "Don't give up. If you are in need, use every resource out there to help you get on your feet. Try to find out the names of every available program willing to offer support and aid, so that you can get ahead in life… and keep praying."

When the courts decided that, based on their mental disabilites and mental health issues, the parents of a young girl were unable to provide her with adequate care, her family was in upheaval. Parents and Children Together (PACT), a community-based parenting education program for impoverished families headed by individuals with developmental disabilities, was asked to step in to help the family work toward a resolution.

Offered through The Arc of Somerset County, a Somerset County United Way-affiliated agency, PACT was needed to lend intensive in-home services and parenting education. When Jeanne Guarnieri, director of PACT, first met the family she encountered a great deal of frustration and anger, “PACT’s role in this situation was to be an advocate for the child and a resource for the family. As things turned out, it would be a task that would demand the resources of our entire team."

“The more the family struggled amongst themselves, and with lawyers and the courts, the more tangled their situation became,” stated Guarnieri. “To make matters worse, at the center of all the turmoil was a little girl with what appeared to be a very uncertain future as her family fought bitterly over her for legal custody.” Though the courts and case workers had shown that the child was better off with her paternal grandmother, her parents were unable to accept this situation.

Though animosity and misunderstandings at first hindered a resolution to this difficult situation, the PACT staff began to see positive results after they provided intervention and counseling.

“Our team made frequent home visits and assisted adult family members in focusing on positive, clearer inter-family communications,” said Guarnieri. “We were also able to introduce and facilitate other helpful professionals to gain the trust and confidence of the family members and provide needed support and guidance.”

Seven years later, the family is much healthier and still working with PACT to ensure the continued well-being of everyone involved. The custody case is over, with the child settled and living with her grandmother. Her parents, who now have visitation rights, are much happier after having worked through their emotional turmoil and changing their behavior for the good of their daughter and themselves.

“When the parents first came to us, they were dealing with a great deal of anger and humiliation,” states Guarnieri. “The change is incredible. You just don’t see that same anger anymore. The family has learned better ways of communicating with each other and everyone is much happier. We were able to see where the parents’ anger was coming from originally and, with patience, respect and dignity for all involved, we were able to work through it. What’s more, a little girl who was once at the center of great turmoil is now an active, happy seven year old with roadways and bridges to her family members and those that love her still intact.”

You can make a difference in someone’s life by supporting Somerset County United Way’s Community Care Fund. To make a donation, visit United Way’s website at www.somersetcountyunitedway.org or call them at (908) 725-6640.

Somerset County, N.J. - When brothers Dominic and Stephen arrived at the Martin Luther King Youth Center (MLKYC) in Bridgewater, a Somerset County United Way-affiliated agency, it was under sad circumstances. The young boys, ages 6 and 7, had lost their mother in an automobile accident.

The children, now orphans, went to live with their grandparents who eventually became their legal guardians. The boys became students in the MLKYC after-school program, where the staff knew they would need extra attention and special care. The staff was determined to help them through this rough time through nurturing, support and counseling while helping them progress in school.

“We worked individually and collectively to create an atmosphere at the Center to elevate the boys’ self-esteem,” said Rajni Chopra, MLKYC’s executive director. “We were able to provide support for both the children by providing assistance to them on a one-on-one basis with the help of our volunteers.”

With confused emotions, the boys found it difficult to adjust. Gradually, over a course of three years, both youngsters overcame a great deal of the hostility and sorrow that was commensurate with the hardship of their situation.

“We kept in touch with the boys’ schools for progress reports and homework assignments and remained abreast of their academic strengths and weaknesses. We fostered behavior modification techniques while encouraging them to exhibit acceptable values in their everyday activities,” said Chopra.

The boys responded positively to the care they received from their strong support network that included their grandparents, teachers and the devoted staff at MLKYC. Showing an improvement in their academics as well as their outlook on their lives, the boys became emotionally stronger and adapted to the positive environment that the Center provided.

Through genuine concern and the devotion of staff and volunteers, MLKYC was able to be an effective part of the caring effort that made the best of a difficult situation for two young boys who have now begun to thrive.

The Martin Luther King Youth Center is an after-school and summer program that offers educational, recreational, cultural, developmental and nutritional services to meet the needs of school-age children. By offering quality childcare services and a positive learning environment, they strive to make a positive difference in the lives of their students and their families.

Somerset County United Way’s Community Care Fund provides financial support to the Martin Luther King Youth Center and other nonprofit agencies that provide crucial services. You can make a difference in someone’s life by supporting United Way. To make a donation, visit United Way’s website at www.somersetcountyunitedway.org or call them at (908) 725-6640.

"Mom felt so proud," said Florence's daughter Rose, of her 89-year-old mother who had never worn a costume in her life until now. Rose described her costumed mother as "priceless." After the party at SHADC, Rose took her mother to visit Rose's husband's office where she had the chance to show her off to more people.

Florence had been living with her daughter and son-in-law for two years when Rose began looking for day care for her mother. Though she visited for-profit centers, she wasn't impressed until she came to the Somerset Hills Adult Center, a Somerset County United Way affiliated nonprofit agency in Basking Ridge, where she found what she described as a warm and caring atmosphere.

Rose admits that, at first, one of the reasons she was bringing Florence to SHADC was to give herself "a break." But, when she realized how much her mother enjoyed herself at the Center, she realized it was truly Florence who was benefiting.

"Somerset Hills Adult Day Center is a wonderful thing - a day out, having lunch, being taken care of and being stimulated by the activities," said Rose. She added that she hopes more families and caregivers learn about all that the Center has to offer, stating that it gives her mother, "a life of her own."

SHADC is dedicated to helping the elderly who are homebound or in need of supervision to continue living independently or with family. The Center offers social activities and companionship that reduces their loneliness and provides them with a variety of experiences to keep their minds active and their spirits up.

Knowing that their elderly loved ones are in kind, caring and competent hands, caregivers are provided with the opportunity to carry out daily tasks. The Center offers a less expensive alternative to in-home assistance and delays, and in some cases, eliminates the need for institutionalization.

Among the daily activities and benefits the Center has to offer are current events review, sing-alongs, exercise, cooking projects, pet therapy, handicrafts, communal dining, peer mingling, group projects and holiday theme parties. The participants also receive health monitoring such as assistance with toileting, medication administration, blood pressure checking/monitoring and podiatric services as well as general supervision and observation.

The SHADC staff is highly motivated and devoted to respecting the dignity and the special concerns of the frail elderly. As Florence and her daughter can both attest, SHADC works continuously to enrich the lives of their clients by infusing daily life with beauty, meaning, joy and pleasure.

Please contact Somerset Hills Adult Day Center for more information or to learn about available volunteer opportunities.

Somerset County, N.J. - When Sister Louise’s aging father was temporarily hospitalized and subsequently semi-paralyzed, panic set in as it became apparent how crucial professional help would be, both for him and Sister Louise’s mother. Not only did Sister Louise need to care for her ailing parents, but she was also caretaker to an aunt and an uncle who lived in two different states.

Thanks to VNA Community Care, a subsidiary of the Visiting Nurse Association of Somerset Hills and a Somerset County United Way affiliated agency, Sister Louise was not alone in caring for those she loves. "Because of the VNA’s Respite program, I have had peace of mind knowing that when I am not there my parents are in the competent hands of a person who cares for and respects them. The Respite program is a creative and invaluable program."

Sister Louise’s parents were primarily a single-income family that lived modestly, eventually owning their own home. In their retirement years they lived off her father’s pension and the interest from a small savings. Though they had just enough money for living expenses, food, medicine and medical services, there was not enough money for home health care that would be a necessity for Sister Louise who, in addition to tending to her parents, aunt and uncle, still needed to work.

Not able to qualify for Medicaid but unable to pay the full costs of home health care, Sister Louise was able to access the VNA’s affordable Respite Care through a combination of the family’s savings and lowered rates made possible through a United Way funded program.

"Caregivers such as Sister Louise are often those who are over the caps for government programs available to families in the community," said Betty Curtis Stiles, Respite Care coordinator for the VNA. "For these families, the financial strain of the high cost of medications, insurance premiums and home health care can be frightening. The relief families receive in planning and accessing services and sharing the cost of respite through United Way is often the support that enables the families to continue caring for their elder relative at home."

The Respite program allowed Sister Louise to take care of her parents, aunt and uncle while maintaining contact with her religious community and working part-time. Her parents were able to remain in their own home and enjoy the companionship of their aide, while receiving crucial health and hygiene benefits and valuable assistance with their everyday living. In addition, for Sister Louise, who gave up her full-time position to become a supportive caregiver to her parents, the program enabled her to breathe easily knowing that her parents were in good hands when she was not able to be home. "We have been blessed in working with the staff of the VNA of Somerset Hills," said Sister Louise.

You can make a difference in someone’s life by supporting Somerset County United Way’s Community Care Fund. To make a donation, visit United Way’s website at www.somersetcountyunitedway.org or call them at (908) 725-6640.

In 1991, seven-year-old Jessica was seriously injured in an automobile accident that left her a paraplegic. For many, these circumstances could have been debilitating. But not for Jessica. Instead, she set a goal to be a member of the U.S. 2000 Paralympic track team. And, she did just that. In 2000, after years of training and competitions, Jessica joined the United States Paralympic team in Australia where she won a silver medal in the women’s 800-meter race.

The Somerset Valley YMCA, a Somerset County United Way-funded agency, has supported Jessica and her family in their journey to the Paralympics. “Without the physical and emotional support of the YMCA, Jessica would not have developed into the fine athlete, student and individual that she is,” said Jessica’s father. Jessica had a place to train and spend time with her family between events and competitions. The family was given a free membership and used the money they saved for travel, living and equipment expenses as Jessica competed both in the U.S. and abroad.

Jessica is truly an inspiration. She holds a multitude of records and is one of the top junior female track and road racers in the United States and she is also active in swimming. But Jessica considers wheel chair racing her favorite sport. At the Paralympics this past October, she not only placed second in the 800-meter race but she also placed fourth in the Women’s 400-meter and 200-meter races.

Expressing her gratitude for the YMCA’s support, Jessica stated, “It was hard to juggle both school and training and so it was great knowing there was someplace for me to train at 5 a.m. or 9 p.m. every day. The Paralympics was the most amazing experience I could have ever asked for, especially at my age. The country was beautiful, the people were overly kind and I had a great time competing and touring Sydney. Looking back, I realize how great of an experience it was. I can’t wait until 2004 rolls around and I get to try for the Paralympic Games in Athens, Greece.”

Clearly undaunted by her physical disabilities, Jessica has also competed in the 1998 World Games in Birmingham, England, the 1999 Australian Junior National Games in Perth and the 2000 Junior Nationals in San Jose, Calif., as well as a number of other races and competitions worldwide. A typical teenager, Jessica also enjoys shopping, music and talking on-line with her friends. She is actively involved in community service.

You can make a difference in someone’s life by supporting Somerset County United Way’s Community Care Fund. To make a donation, visit United Way’s website at: www.somersetcountyunitedway.org or call them at (908) 725-6640.

United Way-funded agency helps woman attain her American dream

In October 1997, Blanche made a decision that would change her life. She reached out to Literacy Volunteers of Somerset County, a Somerset County United Way-funded agency. When she emigrated to the United States from Peru, Blanche was barely able to get by with her limited knowledge of English. Without strong communication skills, she knew she lacked the confidence and abilities she would need to realize her dreams of success and attain her desire to be an active member of American society.

After one-to-one sessions with her LVSC tutor, Lydia, Blanche greatly increased her capacity to read and speak English. “In sharing with her my knowledge of verbal and written English, I also feel the gratification of her successes,” said Lydia. “Blanche is a young woman with a strong will to succeed, and I appreciate the opportunity to help her. The other day, Blanche told me her life is totally different from when we started. She’s not afraid to request things, state her mind or defend herself, little things that you take for granted when speech is not a problem.”

After one year of working with Lydia, Blanche was promoted from cashier to department assistant manager at the large store where she worked. Six months later she became manager of two departments. Circumstances that were once overwhelming became manageable for Blanche with her increased command of English. Recently, she was able to ask for help when her car broke down. To some of us, this might seem a small accomplishment. To Blanche, this newly-acquired confidence was empowering.

“Thanks to the help we receive from Somerset County United Way, we are able to offer independence and hope to so many by promoting literacy,” said LVSC Board President Judith Neustadt. “The ability to read and comprehend at a functional level is fundamental to the quality of life. I commend both Blanche for her fortitude and Lydia for her commitment to Blanche and the community.”

Blanche has begun the process of applying for U.S. citizenship and, with the help of Literacy Volunteers of Somerset County, she continues to strive for a better life. Her next goal is to attend computer classes to advance her career.

You can make a difference in someone’s life by supporting Somerset County United Way’s Community Care Fund, which funds 54 nonprofit agencies providing health and human services. To make a donation, visit United Way’s website at: www.somersetcountyunitedway.org or call them at (908) 725-6640.

Somerset County, N.J. - Thanks to a generous donation from IBM Corporation, Somerset County United Way (SCUW) has distributed much-needed computers to eight local health and human service agencies.

“We are very thankful for IBM’s donation to our Youth Center,” said Rajni Chopra, executive director of the Martin Luther King Youth Center in Bridgewater, a SCUW-affiliated agency and the recipient of two IBM desktop computers. “A structured computer program is an outstanding asset to the Center. It enables us to teach basic skills to the children at an early age so that they can enhance their learning capacity in a world that is becoming more and more technologically advanced.”

IBM’s contribution is part of the company’s $5 million annual, nationwide technology donation program. Over the past five years, IBM has donated new technology through local United Ways and other organizations, to thousands of nonprofit agencies in hundreds of communities.

“IBM appreciates the significant impact these charities have on the people they serve,” said Stanley S. Litow, IBM’s vice president of corporate community relations and president of IBM’s International Foundation. “We at IBM are committed to improving lives and to helping communities realize their full potential through the use of technology.”

In order to qualify to receive the computers, recipients must be involved in one or more of the following issue areas: youth education and early learning; community and family services; support for the disadvantaged; adult services and youth development. Grant awards are made by a SCUW committee and based on determination of need, past participation and computer availability.

A program participant since 1993, SCUW has assisted in the donation of more than $200,000 in computer equipment. “Dedicated to being a force for positive change, United Way recognizes the need for agencies to be technologically advanced,” said Michele Horst, director of Community Volunteer Services for United Way. “The computers are a welcome opportunity for these agencies in their quest to expand their services and offer quality programs.”

The eight health and human service agencies receiving IBM Thinkpad laptops, Young Explorer systems and/or desktops are Somerset Community Action Program in Somerset; the Resource Center for Women and Their Families in Belle Mead; the Rock Brook School in Skillman; Homesharing, Inc. and the Martin Luther King Youth Center, both in Bridgewater; The Jointure Centre at Raritan; the American Red Cross - Greater Somerset County Chapter in Somerville; and the Arc of Somerset County in Manville.

Volunteer Receives United Way Award

Somerset County, N.J. - Richard Yessian of Hillsborough has no aspirations of impressing others or being recognized for his good deeds. What he does care about is helping families in need find a better life. It was for his invaluable work with Raritan Valley Habitat for Humanity (RVHFH) as their Building Committee co-chair that he was honored with Somerset County United Way’s Christian T. Nielsen Unsung Hero Award.

“Rich is a model of the humble servant,” said Pam Ely, executive director of RVHFH in Bridgewater. “His energy, expertise and great sense of humor have endeared him to Habitat for Humanity. With help from Rich and other dedicated volunteers, RVHFH was able to complete four homes and has planned three more projects.”

RVHFH works with volunteers to build decent, affordable housing for low-income families in Somerset and Hunterdon counties. The agency’s building program relies heavily on volunteers. At times, most of the responsibility fell on Yessian’s shoulders. An aeronautical engineer by profession, Yessian used his technical expertise and professional project management skills to organize and manage the construction of these new homes.“Until I received this award I never gave much thought to why I volunteer,” said Yessian. “For me, the rewards of volunteering are many. I enjoy helping and guiding children and families, seeing them accomplish something and grow in confidence and ability. It’s very rewarding to see how happy adults are when they obtain something such as a house that they got through their own labor and the help of an organization such as Raritan Valley Habitat For Humanity.”

Yessian’s career as a volunteer started with his children and their scouting and sports programs. Since retiring, he became involved with RVHFH as a worker and Building Committee co-chair. He also volunteers with the Resource Center for Women and Their Families, another United Way-affiliated agency.

“You will not find a more low-profile dedicated volunteer,” said Dick Kline, construction coordinator for RVHFH. “He never seeks recognition for all the work he quietly does. You really have to have had the pleasure of working with him as co-chair of the Building Committee to be aware of the extent of his contribution to RVHFH.  Most volunteers just see the skilled, high-energy carpenter on site. That in itself is pretty amazing, but that is just part of the picture.”

Yessian received his award at Somerset County United Way’s Community Celebration held earlier this year. Also recognized with a Nielsen Award was Stella Obace of the Arc of Somerset County. As manager of the Arc’s Respite Group Home, Obace dedicates much of her life to helping others and is known for her compassion.

Members of the community who would like to know more about volunteer opportunities may contact SCUW’s Volunteer Center at (908) 253-6506 or complete an application online at www.somersetcountyunitedway.org.

After years of suffering abuse and mental anguish as a child, it wasn’t surprising that Alex found himself in trouble as a teen. His behavior indicated that, without proper intervention, the experiences he’d had as a child could lead him to a dangerous future. That’s where the Somerset Home for Temporarily Displaced Children (Somerset Home), a Somerset County United Way-affiliated agency, came in. After completing three years of rehabilitative therapy, Alex came to the Somerset Home to help him prepare for a healthier life as a responsible and productive adult.

Alex enrolled in Passages, a Somerset Home transitional living program that provides a stable environment for troubled young men and women while assisting them in gaining independence and life skills. “Somerset Home’s mission is to provide a variety of services for youth who are at-risk,” said Executive Director Jeffrey Fetzko. “Youth come to us who have been victims of physical or sexual abuse, violence in the home or are throwaway or homeless children. They have serious problems but are victims of circumstances beyond their control. Somerset Home currently has two facilities, the Somerset Youth Shelter and The Passages Transitional Living program.”

In the Passages program, participants are supported as they attend high school, participate in individual and group counseling, obtain employment and take courses that prepare them to be responsible and self-sufficient adults. Here Alex found the strong support system he needed to build a promising future.

Alex began attending the Somerset County Vocational and Technical High School, where he excelled in all of his classes. He found a job in retail that enabled him to build his savings. As his interests and apparent abilities in graphic arts emerged, he found not only an outlet and a way to express himself but a career track to pursue. His relationship with his family, once strained, became a source of support and security. Since his involvement in Passages, Alex has shed many of the emotional and social issues that, for years, kept him from achieving his personal best. What could have been a road from a troubled childhood to a difficult adulthood was diverted by therapy and the support he has received at Passages.

“Alex has made great strides in his life since he came to the Passages program,” said Case Manager Jeffrey Hickman. “Alex is a lot more independent and confident in the decisions he makes for himself. He is well on his way to being a productive, independent member of society.”

Alex continues to rise above a challenging past as he looks forward to new endeavors. Soon he will be ready to go out on his own and pursue his interests and a career by attending college. Recognizing all that he has accomplished in the last few years, Alex notes that the staff at Passages, “Have been great in helping me learn to be independent and to take care of myself. I feel very lucky. I’ve learned a lot and I’ve met a lot of good friends here.”

You can make a difference in someone’s life by supporting Somerset County United Way’s Community Care Fund, which provides funding to local health and human service agencies. To make a donation, visit United Way’s website at: www.somersetcountyunitedway.org or call them at (908) 725-6640.